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petrichor2 said:Gray hair is a problem if you don't like the look
If the reason you don't like it is that there's a social stigma about looking that way then the stigma is the problem to be fixed.
petrichor2 said:and indeed it isn't really attractive for the majority of people.
Citation needed.
petrichor2 said:Women who find gray hair attractive are usually the kind of women who look for old rich men to take care of them and this is your "experience".
Ridiculous sexism.
petrichor2 said:Of course we all get old at the end but as I said before gray hair can appear in any age and it isn't that rare to find children/teenagers with some gray hairs.
And the fact that grey hairs can occur in youthful, fit people doesn't make you stop and think that perhaps there's nothing wrong with grey hair at all and that it's just something pushed by certain groups within society...?
petrichor2 said:It isn't about looking young at age 70, It is about preventing from those really bad genes from ruining your look and make you look much older than what you are.
Citation needed that age of hair greying is correlated with genetic disorders. This is a science forum, you can't just yell out "bad genes" and expect a knee jerk reaction of agreement.
petrichor2 said:And no, there is no any kind of psychological benefit from denial and telling yourself that it looks good, It kind of remind me those "fat acceptance" women who try to convince themselves and others by force that their fat body is attractive while it is obviously not for the great majority of the population and they can't just convince people that they are attractive.
More ridiculousness, driven by your unwarranted assumption that grey hair automatically is widely regarded as unattractive. Even if it were there is certainly psychological benefit to being content with one's appearance. That isn't denial at all. As for the fat acceptance movement I think you've completely misunderstood their point, which is that there is a great diversity in attractiveness (more than is pushed in most media) for different people and we should acknowledge that. Being overweight adds the extra factor of health, which grey hair does not have.
petrichor2 said:So would you want to date with a fat woman with a completely gray hair or a woman with athletic fit body with vibrant hair color?.
Again this is a science forum; terribly constructed arguments are not going to fly here. Attempting to conflate the idea that grey hair is an absolute factor in attractiveness and a factor in health with personal preferences in partners, then setting up a terrible false dichotomy.