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Aufbauwerk 2045
I stay on PF for several reasons. (1) Interesting and educational content. (2) Rules to enforce a minimum standard of politeness. (3) No politics or religion. (4) No fringe science. I think PF does a very good job regarding these points.
Having said that, my suggestions concern (2).
My first suggestion concerns the use of all caps. We all know from basic internet etiquette that it's considered not nice to use all caps. It is thought to indicate raising one's voice or even shouting, either in general, or directed toward a particular person or persons.
But I've noticed that it seems acceptable at this time to use all-caps in a restricted way when addressing someone. This seems to me like the last holdout against the anti-shouting rule. I interpret it as someone raising their voice or even shouting at someone they disagree with.
For example, if we disagree with someone, we might type "YOU may think xyz, but that is just YOUR opinion and I think YOU are wrong, etc." One can almost hear the person raising their voice in irritation and maybe jabbing their finger at the person in emphasize.
I propose the following rule. Please do not use all caps in the way I've just described. One can express disagreement without being so aggressive.
My other suggestion concerns a common habit which I admit irritates me a lot, whether it's in real life or online. That is people who think it's fine to give orders. By that I mean saying "do this" or "don't do that" or otherwise giving commands as opposed to making a polite suggestion. Is there a problem with saying "please" if it's a request? Or saying "I suggest" or something along those lines? There are many ways to say something that do not involve what sounds like barking an order at someone.
Please remember that a little courtesy goes a long way in making everything more pleasant for everyone.
I don't have any complaints against anyone I've chatted with. This is more of a general comment. Once again, I congratulate PF for being as good as it is. Very impressive!
Thank you for considering my suggestions.
Having said that, my suggestions concern (2).
My first suggestion concerns the use of all caps. We all know from basic internet etiquette that it's considered not nice to use all caps. It is thought to indicate raising one's voice or even shouting, either in general, or directed toward a particular person or persons.
But I've noticed that it seems acceptable at this time to use all-caps in a restricted way when addressing someone. This seems to me like the last holdout against the anti-shouting rule. I interpret it as someone raising their voice or even shouting at someone they disagree with.
For example, if we disagree with someone, we might type "YOU may think xyz, but that is just YOUR opinion and I think YOU are wrong, etc." One can almost hear the person raising their voice in irritation and maybe jabbing their finger at the person in emphasize.
I propose the following rule. Please do not use all caps in the way I've just described. One can express disagreement without being so aggressive.
My other suggestion concerns a common habit which I admit irritates me a lot, whether it's in real life or online. That is people who think it's fine to give orders. By that I mean saying "do this" or "don't do that" or otherwise giving commands as opposed to making a polite suggestion. Is there a problem with saying "please" if it's a request? Or saying "I suggest" or something along those lines? There are many ways to say something that do not involve what sounds like barking an order at someone.
Please remember that a little courtesy goes a long way in making everything more pleasant for everyone.
I don't have any complaints against anyone I've chatted with. This is more of a general comment. Once again, I congratulate PF for being as good as it is. Very impressive!
Thank you for considering my suggestions.
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