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Laroxe
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SW VandeCarr said:I don't know why this is so difficult for you.
The normal person responds to his or her own suffering and to the suffering of others by experiencing pain to some degree. That's empathy. The psychopath experiences pain only with his or her own suffering, but responds to the suffering of others either not at all or with pleasure. That's a LACK of empathy.I
I think my difficulty might be based on the definition you appear to be using. Researchers generally define empathy as the ability to sense other people’s emotions, coupled with the ability to imagine what someone else might be thinking or feeling. Its a sensitivity to another's emotional state, and applies to all emotional states not just pain. This doesn't mean you experience another's pain or joy, even though that sensitivity is often related to personal experience, exactly the same sensitivity might allow people to experience pleasure if they know someone they really don't like is suffering. Many psychopaths are very adept at reading the effect they are having on their victim and use this to refine the torment, this is empathy. If you are incapable of being sensitive to the suffering of your victim, what pleasure could you get from that, what do you take pleasure in if you can't recognise the suffering you cause and if it has no effect at all, then why do it.? Many people seem to think of empathy as something positive and nice, it isn't its a skill, what you do with that skill is what gives it value.