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rakeru
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Hello!
I am wondering if anyone can help me decide what to do about this problem. I'm at a college majoring in physics, and I'm almost done with my two years. I'm applying to different universities,and I have a professor that wishes to write me a recommendation for when I transfer. He asked me if I needed one, and I said yes. The thing is, he wants me to write the recommendation letter, and he's putting excellent on all the options to evaluate me. He told me to go to his office, and I watched him put excellent on everything and he didn't give it much thought. Now he wants me to write the letter. I do not like nor agree with what he is doing. I tried to back out and tell him that I don't need it, but he insisted on it.
I feel like he should at least put some effort into it if he wants to help me. Like, actually evaluate me instead of putting everything so unrealistically and false. I don't want to mention anything about it to him. He's like my family, and I would feel bad telling him that I don't want his recommendation, but I'm not even supposed to see the recommendation, and I feel bad letting him turn this in, as well as frustrated and angry because this could even affect me negatively. What do I do in this situation?
Thanks in advance :/
I am wondering if anyone can help me decide what to do about this problem. I'm at a college majoring in physics, and I'm almost done with my two years. I'm applying to different universities,and I have a professor that wishes to write me a recommendation for when I transfer. He asked me if I needed one, and I said yes. The thing is, he wants me to write the recommendation letter, and he's putting excellent on all the options to evaluate me. He told me to go to his office, and I watched him put excellent on everything and he didn't give it much thought. Now he wants me to write the letter. I do not like nor agree with what he is doing. I tried to back out and tell him that I don't need it, but he insisted on it.
I feel like he should at least put some effort into it if he wants to help me. Like, actually evaluate me instead of putting everything so unrealistically and false. I don't want to mention anything about it to him. He's like my family, and I would feel bad telling him that I don't want his recommendation, but I'm not even supposed to see the recommendation, and I feel bad letting him turn this in, as well as frustrated and angry because this could even affect me negatively. What do I do in this situation?
Thanks in advance :/