You don't grasp how waves behave when they hit slits is the problem here. So I'll try and introduce some analogies with the real world to show the behaviour of waves in real world terms and in quantum mechanics.
If you look at the object in question as a wave, which has a superposition, like when you wiggle a spring both up and down and side to side, and someone wiggles the spring slightly slower at the other end, this shows within the spring all of these waves mixed to gether in a sort of real world view of what we're talking about.
http://www.phys.hawaii.edu/~teb/java/ntnujava/waveSuperposition/waveSuperposition.html
http://www.answers.com/topic/quantum-superposition
More specifically, in quantum mechanics, any observable quantity corresponds to an eigenstate of a Hermitian linear operator. The linear combination of two or more eigenstates results in quantum superposition of two or more values of the quantity. If the quantity is measured, the projection postulate states that the state will be randomly collapsed onto one of the values in the superposition (with a probability proportional to the square of the amplitude of that eigenstate in the linear combination).
In English they're talking about decoherence here.
Basically two states in a superposition collapse to form one single state randomly, same with any number of states in a superposition.
The reason you can't detect two photons is simply because,their aren't two photons in Feynmans two slit just one,you need to grasp the concept of superposition and that it is decohered by striking a slit all the other "circles" disappear.
Think of it like a water wave hitting the slits, the wave itself behaves much the same in that it spreads out in a pattern which interferes with itself, if you did the same experiment with dyed water you'd find the same pattern emerging on a white screen - make that anaologous to your view of a wave - the difference is that once we try and measure the wave it decoheres so there is no superposition any more, thus no way for the photon's wave/superposition to pass through both slits thus the decoherence is what you are looking at, when we
don't try to detect the photon then the wave continuous unimpeded and undecohered and we see the nature of light which isn't decohered.
If there is no detector there is no decoherence, and the photons super position passes through both slits, interfering with itself.
What this suggests is that the very act of measuring causes something to be quantifiable, but at the same time disturbs what we are really trying to measure. It shows amply that light is both a wave and a particle regardless of how we chose to measure it, it shares a duality, which is demonstrated neatly by the experiment, but more importantly it demonstrates by inference that superposition and the Copenhagen intepritation are viable.
http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/qm-copenhagen/
Look at the wave pattern in the first links I gave, can you visualise the super position going through both slits in an open two slit experiment where one isn't closed?
http://www.freewebs.com/mypicturesandsht/water4.gif"
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What happens when when we detect a photon? It's a bizarre thing to think about, but if you feel it's unusual or weird you are not alone
