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Evo said:I don't feel it's part of the argument, they truly have no right to tell others what to do, IMHO.
Also, I am sick of people that are against abortion pretending that they are somehow "better" than people that are pro-choice. They don't argue facts, instead they rant on about "well, "I" could have had an abortion, but I didn't, now I am a saint, look at how wonderful I am".
Nonsense. I was that person, looking to abort anything less than the best possible, to avoid a problem that could have been avoided, and it was only an accident of technology that let my youngest son slip through the gauntlet I had set in his way, and he showed up with his 1:20000 genetic deletion and thoroughly kicked my ass by demonstrating that my once clueless selfish little calculus was totally unfounded
I'm not about to suggest that the gov't should impose the lesson taught to me on the whole world. I'm only thankful that I survived my ignorance, my arrogance, my selfish Jr High sensibilities rationalization, and my life was saved.
My wife's biggest fear, her entire life, was to someday have to 'deal' with a 'special needs' child. Not that I just couldn't wait, but for her, it was a uniquely identified fear.
Be careful what you fear, not because life will someday manage to deliver exactly that to your doorstep, but because when it does, you will find yourself totally and deeply ashamed that you ever feared it, and will seriously question your own humanity for having once done so.
I envy my son's courage. I have it easy, I was a coward, and he made me ashamed of being afraid to witness his courage.
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