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Dooga Blackrazor
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I'm looking for suggestions on how to cope/deal with a social issue. I have a problem dealing with my friends. They are not the nerdiest people in the world, but they aren't dumb either. They achieve marks of around 80-89% for the most part.
However, they don't seem to have any interest in maintaining an intellectual conversation. They say things like "Did you notice how the teacher always does this...?" Of course I noticed, I'm not completely blind, and as an intellectual what they're saying is equivalent to saying "Did you ever notice the door is blue?"
Anyway, to cope with this problem I make jokes involving complete nonsense that make everyone laugh. I shroud my intelligence and they don't even realize it - despite the fact I achieve well academically. Anyway, they say I'm annoying but they do it while laughing most of the time.
So basically it seems like my choices are to be annoying all the time and bother them occasionally, or be depressed. If I stop talking - literally - for any period of time, I start thinking how stupid their conversations are. However, if I join them by saying random things, I can get the temporarily relief that comes with contagious laughter - when you make other people laugh. It doesn't work well when they try to make me laugh.
Anyway, it may not be my intelligence entirely that separates me but my abstract type of thinking. Regardless, I'm unsure what I should do to cope/change. High School is clicky and I'd hate to avoid the majority of people my entire life, since most people either bother me or are uninteresting (from my perspective).
So basically it seems like my choices are to be annoying all the time and bother them occasionally, or be depressed. If I stop talking - literally - for any period of time, I start thinking how stupid their conversations are. However, if I join them by saying random things, I can't the temporarily relief that comes with contagious laughter when you make other people laugh. It doesn't work well when they try to make me laugh.
Anyway, it may not be my intelligence entirely that separates me but my abstract type of thinking. Regardless, I'm unsure what I should do to cope/change. High School is clicky and I'd hate to avoid the majority of people my entire life, since most people either bother me or are uninteresting (from my perspective).
Thanks for reading.
However, they don't seem to have any interest in maintaining an intellectual conversation. They say things like "Did you notice how the teacher always does this...?" Of course I noticed, I'm not completely blind, and as an intellectual what they're saying is equivalent to saying "Did you ever notice the door is blue?"
Anyway, to cope with this problem I make jokes involving complete nonsense that make everyone laugh. I shroud my intelligence and they don't even realize it - despite the fact I achieve well academically. Anyway, they say I'm annoying but they do it while laughing most of the time.
So basically it seems like my choices are to be annoying all the time and bother them occasionally, or be depressed. If I stop talking - literally - for any period of time, I start thinking how stupid their conversations are. However, if I join them by saying random things, I can get the temporarily relief that comes with contagious laughter - when you make other people laugh. It doesn't work well when they try to make me laugh.
Anyway, it may not be my intelligence entirely that separates me but my abstract type of thinking. Regardless, I'm unsure what I should do to cope/change. High School is clicky and I'd hate to avoid the majority of people my entire life, since most people either bother me or are uninteresting (from my perspective).
So basically it seems like my choices are to be annoying all the time and bother them occasionally, or be depressed. If I stop talking - literally - for any period of time, I start thinking how stupid their conversations are. However, if I join them by saying random things, I can't the temporarily relief that comes with contagious laughter when you make other people laugh. It doesn't work well when they try to make me laugh.
Anyway, it may not be my intelligence entirely that separates me but my abstract type of thinking. Regardless, I'm unsure what I should do to cope/change. High School is clicky and I'd hate to avoid the majority of people my entire life, since most people either bother me or are uninteresting (from my perspective).
Thanks for reading.