Teacher recommendation from a teacher I don't like

In summary, the student is struggling with whether or not to ask their physics teacher for a letter of recommendation for college applications. They do not have a strong personal relationship with the teacher and do not feel they will receive a strong recommendation. The student is also considering getting letters of rec from other teachers in subjects they are more passionate about, but are unsure if this will impact their chances of receiving a merit scholarship. Ultimately, they are concerned about standing out in the competitive college admissions process.
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I've posted here before about how I dislike my physics teacher for various reasons. He ignores kids' questions, and he mostly talks about sports, or makes pop culture references and jokes just to get laughs from the class. No one thinks he is a good teacher, and he focuses more on his football coaching than physics teaching.

Also, another problem is I don't have any friends in this class, so I tend to not talk that much. I occasionally answer or ask questions when the teacher does lecture.

So, I don't really like him, and although I get good grades and act polite in class, he doesn't know me personally. So the question is, should I ask for a recommendation from someone I don't personally like, and someone that doesn't even know me other than the shy kid that gets good grades in class?

The thing is, I already have 2 letters of rec in mind from two different teachers, and I would assume the third should be from my favorite subject, physics. I want to major in physics, too. But, would it be alright to get letters of rec from an English teacher, Math teacher, and Chemistry teacher?
 
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Well if you're getting good grades in Physics and haven't done anything for him to dislike you then I don't see why you wouldn't want to get a recommendation from him. However if he senses that you don't like him or he doesn't like you then it wouldn't be such a great idea.

Clearly having a recommendation from your Physics teacher and wanting to major in Physics will cause less questions to be asked when you apply to college..

The biggest indicator for college will be your SAT scores followed by your essay and anything you've done out of the ordinary related to your interest in Physics that gives some indication of your skills and abilities and finally these would be bolstered by your teacher recommendations.

College admissions get so many applications that they go through a weeding out process using some sort of criteria with SAT scores as the first indicator. Soce too low and they take your money and skip to the next applicant. You want to make it as tough as possible for them not to skip your application. Have you visitied the college, had any interviews with profs?...
 
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Well if the SAT is the first step, then I won't pass. I can get into college with my SAT score, but this is for merit scholarships. I guess I should have clarified.

So yeah, my SAT is a little bit above average, so good enough to get into the college. The college doesn't require or recommend having LORs for basic admission, but for scholarships, i need them.
 
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if you don't like them they may not like you, and it could be reflected in the letter.
 
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Unless the merit scholarship is in some way connected to your potential major or to the university's physics department, I assume you could have whichever teachers you like write your recommendations. Teachers with whom you have good relationships--who like you and know you well--would presumably write the strongest recommendations.
 

FAQ: Teacher recommendation from a teacher I don't like

What should I do if I need a teacher recommendation from a teacher I don't like?

First, try to figure out why you don't like the teacher. Is it due to a personality conflict or do you genuinely dislike their teaching style? If it's a personality conflict, try to have a conversation with the teacher and explain your situation. If it's a teaching style issue, see if there are any other teachers who can provide a recommendation for you.

Will a negative teacher recommendation hurt my chances of getting into a certain program or school?

It depends on the program or school. Some may put more weight on teacher recommendations than others. If you are worried about a negative recommendation, try to have a conversation with the teacher and see if they can provide a more neutral recommendation. You can also explain your concerns to the program or school and provide additional references or evidence of your academic abilities.

Can I ask a different teacher to provide a recommendation instead?

Yes, you can ask a different teacher to provide a recommendation. However, it's important to keep in mind that the new teacher may not have as much insight into your academic abilities as the previous teacher. It's always best to try to resolve any issues with the previous teacher before seeking a recommendation from someone else.

What if I have no other options for a teacher recommendation?

If you have no other options for a teacher recommendation, you can explain your situation to the program or school and see if they can provide alternative options. This could be in the form of a counselor or other mentor who can speak to your academic abilities and character. You can also provide other references, such as from extracurricular activities or volunteer work.

How important are teacher recommendations in the admissions process?

Teacher recommendations can vary in importance depending on the program or school. Some may put a lot of weight on them while others may not consider them as heavily. It's important to always try to secure positive recommendations from teachers who know you well and can speak to your academic abilities and character. If you are unable to do so, be sure to communicate your situation to the admissions committee and provide alternative references or evidence of your abilities.

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