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Evo
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Yeah, but they don't hang out in bars.Kurdt said:Its no wonder you never get any of the nerds you fancy.![]()
A reason why I don't hunt at bars anymore. I hunt online.
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Yeah, but they don't hang out in bars.Kurdt said:Its no wonder you never get any of the nerds you fancy.![]()
marlon said:No because the woman is the leading figure when it comes to the "invitation to the act of love". So therefore, she must be given the necesary means to "open the games". that's why she is not desperate. She is just playing her natural part in the complicated jungle of human interactions.
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In a bar, where a woman has at least 20 guys vying for her attention, a woman does not have to do anything but smile to get a man. If he doesn't move, he loses.marlon said:A confident man KNOWS that the woman will follow her natural impulses and therefore he doesn't NEED to approach her.
If he does needs to talk first, it means he is UNABLE to "arouse" the woman's natural instincts...
marlon
Yes, most woman will give a man the "ok" to approach if she is interested. In a sense, women have more power at this stage. But inside she's thinking, "oooh, he's cute". Men just need to be able to pick up on the cues they are getting. Of course, this is just a shallow physical attraction. When the guy comes over and starts talking, then you realize why he was standing all alone in the corner.Galileo said:Wow, seriously? In my opinion it's totally the other way around.
Men court, women choose.
In almost every society, it's up to the man to openly express his desires and display vulnerability first.
In my experience, if a women thinks a guy is cute, she will not move up to him and
say what she thinks openly. She will subtly send body language cues (which most guys are oblivious to), trying to say: "Get over here and seduce me".
And this makes sense to me naturally. There has always been much more at stake for a
woman than a man in this game because of sex. A short but exciting experience for the man,
nine months of pregnancy and children for the woman. She can't afford to express her desires too directly. That's why men court, and women will check you out and assess you for your honesty to make sure you are reliable and not just trying to get into her pants.
Evo said:In a bar, where a woman has at least 20 guys vying for her attention, a woman does not have to do anything but smile to get a man. If he doesn't move, he loses.
Nope. A secure woman will not give him a second thought, she will look at the next guy. An insecure woman that can't deal with rejection might think about it, but do you want an obsessive, insecure woman?marlon said:No, because the woman will be curious to find out why this one guy is not throwing himself at her feet.
It all depends on what comes out of their mouth.Also, one can be pretty sure -statistically speaking- that 95 % of the guys that DO approach her will come back from an empty trip.
Nope. It may arouse desperate women though.It's all about self respect and making things happen by emitting that typical cool male EM radiation that arouses true women
My point exactlyProton Soup said:beautiful people really don't have to try.
Evo said:Nope. A secure woman will not give him a second thought, she will look at the next guy. An insecure woman that can't deal with rejection might think about it, but do you want an obsessive, insecure woman?
It all depends on what comes out of their mouth.
Nope. It may arouse desperate women though.
Proton Soup said:the most sexually aggressive men tend to be total douchebags.
WarPhalange said:I'm not sexually aggressive.
marlon said:No, because the woman will be curious to find out why this one guy is not throwing himself at her feet.
She's only going to pick one of them, but the one who never approaches completely eliminates himself from the pool.Also, one can be pretty sure -statistically speaking- that 95 % of the guys that DO approach her will come back from an empty trip.
It's all about self respect and making things happen by emitting that typical cool male EM radiation that arouses true women
I never had to throw myself at any woman's feet not even at the ones of my current gf...
All the rest --> is just crap for pittyful people
marlon
marlon said:that's great
so are you a douchebag by any chance ?
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Evo said:Yeah, but they don't hang out in bars.
A reason why I don't hunt at bars anymore. I hunt online.![]()
JasonRox said:I can never go online to hunt. Never ever ever ever ever.
JasonRox said:I don't understand why guys chase girls all the time. My buddy was doing it and I flipped out on him once about it, and he stopped. Then he noticed it's so much better.
One time, I went to a small bar that's decently busy. Of course, first thing I do is look for the prettiest girl. So I did that. Then eventually we talked, had fun, danced, and then she wanted to hang out again. I was like... "For sure. I'll talk to you later. I'm going to go chill with my friends." My buddy that said I was dumb for not getting her number first... 5 minutes into our conversation, she came to find me, gave me her number, and left.
Don't chase girls. Never ever ever ever ever.