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DaveC426913 said:Before you conclude this, find out if it's true. Get some of that empirical data that science loves so much.
Create a poll. Ask if PFers believe that women do or do not not flirt with men non-verbally.
Unless I'm understanding the other PF member incorrectly, which I'm sorry if I am, post 33 seems very against women "sending out non-verbal flirting signals even if not aware of what they're doing".
I mean, often if I notice a women I'll try to sit up straight, but not so likely around women I don't care about. Don't people do things like lean slightly away from people they don't like as much, and more likely to lean towards those they're interested in talking to? Isn't this something that anyone can observe for themselves? I had to read that from a teach yourself body language book because I think I have problems on picking up things, but the teach yourself exercises where you observe others pointed it out to me personally, through real life experience of watching. Then it had try yourself exercises. Can't anyone experiment and see how folding your arms/leaning slightly away from someone affects how they act and the conversation versus the next time you speak to them when you lean slightly toward them?
I mean, don't people position themselves differently, voices slightly different, eye contact, posture, spatial closeness, etc, around people depending on how they feel about the other? Can't anyone observe others at a social gathering and even observe body language related to receptiveness in talking to others?
Don't other women say they send body language http://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...JfkNWGfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091015175438AABS8Ml For example one said to me, "omg that is like all true lol yes all that is very true comin from a girl of my standards lol =] but usually we don't act goofy unless were away from them but still in veiw. But when closer around them we get real qiute." Then the men were different than the women, the men were hostile and told me to get out more.
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