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Gale
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Hey all,
So yeah, I know I haven't really posted much in a while. Life has been crazy, and since I've been out of school, there's been less of a reason to hang around the forum. Don't know if I'm remembered well enough or not, but even if you don't know me, advice is welcome anyway.
So here's the deal. The end of October I broke up with whozum, and moved back to New Hampshire. I was not doing very well back then. I left most of my stuff in a public storage place in phoenix, thinking at the time, that I'd go back to arizona for school in the spring. Well, I applied to school, but of course I didn't get my finances together in time. Anyway, a friend from Mass, shows up the night before christmas and tells me he's driving back to Oklahoma, where he's currently living, and that I could go with him. I said sure, since I had nothing else I was doing. Now I'm in Oklahoma... He's changed his mind.
So, in less than 4 months, I've lived in 3 different states. Now I have to decide where I'm going next. I really do want to get back into school, and since I have residency in Arizona, that would be the cheapest place to live. I'll lose my residency status there if I move somewhere else. I could also go back to New Hampshire, but if you know me, you know my family and I don't get along super great, so really, I'd prefer not to do that again. Third option is to go anywhere else... Maybe California since I always wanted to live there, but I dunno. I would, either way, prefer to go back to Arizona and sell or ship my stuff back to New Hampshire, since I'm paying 100 bucks a months to keep it there.
Ok. So that's basically everything I can think of about my situation. My personal preference would be to move to california, and swing by arizona on the way to get my things. Of course, that's probably the most expensive option, and since I've been moving around so much I haven't had the opportunity to work or save any money.
So if you were me, would you bite the bullet and go back to New Hampshire? See how far my minuscule savings gets me? Try to find friends in arizona to stay with til I find a place out there? Some other idea I haven't thought of? Any opinions welcome, and appreciated. Even jokes about how stupid I am for being in this whole mess would be great.
So yeah, I know I haven't really posted much in a while. Life has been crazy, and since I've been out of school, there's been less of a reason to hang around the forum. Don't know if I'm remembered well enough or not, but even if you don't know me, advice is welcome anyway.
So here's the deal. The end of October I broke up with whozum, and moved back to New Hampshire. I was not doing very well back then. I left most of my stuff in a public storage place in phoenix, thinking at the time, that I'd go back to arizona for school in the spring. Well, I applied to school, but of course I didn't get my finances together in time. Anyway, a friend from Mass, shows up the night before christmas and tells me he's driving back to Oklahoma, where he's currently living, and that I could go with him. I said sure, since I had nothing else I was doing. Now I'm in Oklahoma... He's changed his mind.
So, in less than 4 months, I've lived in 3 different states. Now I have to decide where I'm going next. I really do want to get back into school, and since I have residency in Arizona, that would be the cheapest place to live. I'll lose my residency status there if I move somewhere else. I could also go back to New Hampshire, but if you know me, you know my family and I don't get along super great, so really, I'd prefer not to do that again. Third option is to go anywhere else... Maybe California since I always wanted to live there, but I dunno. I would, either way, prefer to go back to Arizona and sell or ship my stuff back to New Hampshire, since I'm paying 100 bucks a months to keep it there.
Ok. So that's basically everything I can think of about my situation. My personal preference would be to move to california, and swing by arizona on the way to get my things. Of course, that's probably the most expensive option, and since I've been moving around so much I haven't had the opportunity to work or save any money.
So if you were me, would you bite the bullet and go back to New Hampshire? See how far my minuscule savings gets me? Try to find friends in arizona to stay with til I find a place out there? Some other idea I haven't thought of? Any opinions welcome, and appreciated. Even jokes about how stupid I am for being in this whole mess would be great.