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just seen this question being asked on youtube so thought i would start it here , so when did you feel less like a kid and more like an adult?
hbk4894 said:just seen this question being asked on youtube so thought i would start it here , so when did you feel less like a kid and more like an adult?
I'll let you know when it happens.hbk4894 said:just seen this question being asked on youtube so thought i would start it here , so when did you feel less like a kid and more like an adult?
Silicon Waffle said:When you start to feel that you want to live a young life again (most old people will probably have to go through this stage)
and that's cool if they think they want to do it with a different life partner , a sign of full maturity.
This on one hand seems to be a correct approach to realizing how much one may have probably grown up but on the other he won't likely recognize it's an endless enlightenment process he is pursuing, and thus even at 90, e.g he may still think he isn't a true grown-up at all. How to lead my life is a matter of my own choice regardless of my age anyway.Psinter said:I agree with the following:
As to OP question. I don't think I can spot a point when it happened. And even if I agree with the above, I'm not so sure I've ever felt less of a kid.
Perhaps it's the moment you start to or want to experience something totally different, e.g you no longer have an urge to peek or look at people's body parts, your partners may be of the same sex instead of opposite sex as usual, something you think you'd better enjoy having or doing with those you weren't allowed to do with during your previous time/childhood etc.wolram said:Grrr, i am old and have been through several life partners and i still do not feel grown up
Silicon Waffle said:This on one hand seems to be a correct approach to realizing how much one may have probably grown up but on the other he won't likely recognize it's an endless enlightenment process he is pursuing, and thus even at 90, e.g he may still think he isn't a true grown-up at all. How to lead my life is a matter of my own choice regardless of my age anyway.Perhaps it's the moment you start to or want to experience something totally different, e.g you no longer have an urge to peek or look at people's body parts, your partners may be of the same sex instead of opposite sex as usual, something you think you'd better enjoy having or doing with those you weren't allowed to do with during your previous time/childhood etc.
Above are just my personal ideas
Greg how can one reach such an exhaled position after only 33yrsGreg Bernhardt said:I play a lot of competitive soccer and when my mens team plays against young teams I feel old lol. (About to turn 33)
For me, there were a few key experiences that made me feel like a grown up. Getting my first job, moving out of my parents' house, and paying my own bills all contributed to this feeling. But I think the biggest moment for me was when I had to make a major decision on my own, without consulting my parents or anyone else.
Yes, there was definitely a specific moment when I realized I was an adult. It was when I signed the lease for my first apartment. As I was signing my name, it hit me that I was responsible for this space and all the bills that came with it. It was a little scary, but also empowering.
Absolutely. Even though I have had many experiences that have made me feel like a grown up, there are still moments where I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. I think it's important to remember that being an adult doesn't mean you have everything figured out.
My advice would be to take on more responsibilities and make decisions for yourself. This could mean getting a job, moving out on your own, or even just taking on a new hobby or project. It's also important to remember that being a grown up is a process and it's okay to still feel like a kid sometimes.
No, there is no specific age or milestone that defines adulthood. Everyone matures and grows at their own pace, and there is no set timeline for when someone should feel like a grown up. It's a personal journey and everyone's experiences are different.