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hello every one am 22 i have 2 guys in my life right now who are both interested in me and looking for a long term relationship that can lead to marriage. they are both great guys i will want to spend the rest of my life with.
1) the first guy is 31 and a senior systems engineer and has his own businesses on the side. live in his own house. He is God fearing but the only problem with him is he is a very busy person and hard to get hold of him. he always calls me at the wrong time when am in school or work. so i call him back as i said i always have to leave a message and it takes him 24 to 48 hours to respond. we hardly talk everyday and i feel like communication is the key that's my only problem what about when you need the person during emergencies will he take that long to respond. the good side about him we live an hour apart from each other so we see each other often. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said i will have to think about it don't have any problem with his age love is ageless.
2) The second guy who is 28 is an accountant and also has his own business on the side writing health books etc. he is caring . lives on his own text me every day and we talk everynight on the phone. he is very God fearing also and a real gentleman. the only problem with him is he lives in South Carolina so is more of a long distance. i live in virginia. he wished to get married before 30 an asked me to be his girlfriend and i told him i have to think about it.
i want to end one but in a nice way without hurting their feelings.
am so confused on who to choose. i want to commit to ONLY one person. any advice appreciated.
1) the first guy is 31 and a senior systems engineer and has his own businesses on the side. live in his own house. He is God fearing but the only problem with him is he is a very busy person and hard to get hold of him. he always calls me at the wrong time when am in school or work. so i call him back as i said i always have to leave a message and it takes him 24 to 48 hours to respond. we hardly talk everyday and i feel like communication is the key that's my only problem what about when you need the person during emergencies will he take that long to respond. the good side about him we live an hour apart from each other so we see each other often. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said i will have to think about it don't have any problem with his age love is ageless.
2) The second guy who is 28 is an accountant and also has his own business on the side writing health books etc. he is caring . lives on his own text me every day and we talk everynight on the phone. he is very God fearing also and a real gentleman. the only problem with him is he lives in South Carolina so is more of a long distance. i live in virginia. he wished to get married before 30 an asked me to be his girlfriend and i told him i have to think about it.
i want to end one but in a nice way without hurting their feelings.
am so confused on who to choose. i want to commit to ONLY one person. any advice appreciated.