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Aero51
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It's a simple question that deeply depresses me: Why do girls like guys that lie to them? The sad part is that most of them don't even know they are being lied to/like being lied to most of them time. I am asking this question both from my observation of people and my own experiences; I find that when I act like a BS artist I go from a loner to a ladies man in seconds. It deeply bothers me because this is not who I am: I pride myself on being a straightforward man and it bothers me very much that I have to sacrifice this part of myself in order to get dates.
So this brings me back to my main question: why do most girls like guys that BS them?
I'd like to think that this will change eventually, but I don't think so. I am only 22 years old and I've never dated a girl younger than me (except when I was 19 and it was short lived due to a tragedy that happened in her life soon after we started dating). I feel like most girls my age don't want a man, they want an "all-talk" wanna-be man.
Are there any women that don't fall for this crap that guys feed them?
I have to say experiences related to this topic have made me very bitter, maybe even sexist, over the years. I know this is not the right path to take for a healthy relationship, but I cannot ignore the fact that in order to get dates, I have to become someone else.
Help...
So this brings me back to my main question: why do most girls like guys that BS them?
I'd like to think that this will change eventually, but I don't think so. I am only 22 years old and I've never dated a girl younger than me (except when I was 19 and it was short lived due to a tragedy that happened in her life soon after we started dating). I feel like most girls my age don't want a man, they want an "all-talk" wanna-be man.
Are there any women that don't fall for this crap that guys feed them?
I have to say experiences related to this topic have made me very bitter, maybe even sexist, over the years. I know this is not the right path to take for a healthy relationship, but I cannot ignore the fact that in order to get dates, I have to become someone else.
Help...