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I'd like to share a personal story that...in the context of the stimulus debate government/private sector jobs...provides a different perspective.
I have boy/girl twins, age 16. She doesn't want to drive...he can't wait to get a drivers license.
His argument is that he needs a part time job so that he doesn't need to ask for money...several times a day. (Our motivation)
The employers that are close enough to home...walking/bicycle/electric scooter distance are "unacceptable" for a variety of reasons. (His Dilemma...we just don't understand)
Further, he doesn't want to in convenience us to drive him to and from work...in our vehicles and using our gas and insurance. (He apparently worries quite often about our inconvenience)
He paid for his own driving lessons (he made the 24% down payment and we paid the balance). He's arranged financing for his insurance (Grandpa is adding him to his policy $100/month and the boy will "pay him back when he gets a job").
He convinced Mom to let him drive her all over town to pick-up applications from prospective employers. Then he talked Grandpa into letting him drive him all over town to submit applications. Then, he talked me into letting him drive me all over town to interviews. We're out about $30 in gas and McDonald's put him on their schedule for 8 hours per week at $7.00 per hour. As a follow up, we've made another 3 trips to and fro with regards to a work permit.
Now he can't start work until he has a drivers license...can't depend on us to drive him to and fro? (Thinking of us again)
Accordingly, he took his test last week...did really well until he became over-confident and bumped a traffic cone in the maneuverability test. No license equals no work for a week. Now he's scheduled to retake the test today.
Assuming he'll pass this time (he does do a good job of handling the vehicle...just a typical over-anxious boy) he plans on starting work next week and gave us an option this morning to consider.
He either needs a commitment from us that a vehicle will be available when he prescribes. The alternative option is for me to make a scheduled $500 repair to a car that I choose not to drive in winter months, then "sell" to him (for a price about 20% of wholesale) over 2 years, at 0% interest. (What a deal & I can drive my "winter car" because I like it so much - a Saturn wagon)
The bottom line, I can't afford for him to get a job. If McDonald's paid him $20 per hour, it would be a losing proposition to me.
I see similarities between my teenage son's arguments and our current government direction. Obama, Pelosi, and Reid are all pushing their political agendas...at tremendous cost to us - the taxpayers...with very little hope of a true financial return on our investment. Even if the programs "work", we'll never retire the debt (with interest) in our lifetimes.
I don't want to say no to my son and crush his dreams. I want him to earn his own money and feel good about himself. I also want him to be balanced...studies/family/sports...then a job at McDonald's. I also need to teach him financial responsibility and hold him accountable. As the kids age, the problems become more complex, it's going to be an interesting spring/summer.
I have boy/girl twins, age 16. She doesn't want to drive...he can't wait to get a drivers license.
His argument is that he needs a part time job so that he doesn't need to ask for money...several times a day. (Our motivation)
The employers that are close enough to home...walking/bicycle/electric scooter distance are "unacceptable" for a variety of reasons. (His Dilemma...we just don't understand)
Further, he doesn't want to in convenience us to drive him to and from work...in our vehicles and using our gas and insurance. (He apparently worries quite often about our inconvenience)
He paid for his own driving lessons (he made the 24% down payment and we paid the balance). He's arranged financing for his insurance (Grandpa is adding him to his policy $100/month and the boy will "pay him back when he gets a job").
He convinced Mom to let him drive her all over town to pick-up applications from prospective employers. Then he talked Grandpa into letting him drive him all over town to submit applications. Then, he talked me into letting him drive me all over town to interviews. We're out about $30 in gas and McDonald's put him on their schedule for 8 hours per week at $7.00 per hour. As a follow up, we've made another 3 trips to and fro with regards to a work permit.
Now he can't start work until he has a drivers license...can't depend on us to drive him to and fro? (Thinking of us again)
Accordingly, he took his test last week...did really well until he became over-confident and bumped a traffic cone in the maneuverability test. No license equals no work for a week. Now he's scheduled to retake the test today.
Assuming he'll pass this time (he does do a good job of handling the vehicle...just a typical over-anxious boy) he plans on starting work next week and gave us an option this morning to consider.
He either needs a commitment from us that a vehicle will be available when he prescribes. The alternative option is for me to make a scheduled $500 repair to a car that I choose not to drive in winter months, then "sell" to him (for a price about 20% of wholesale) over 2 years, at 0% interest. (What a deal & I can drive my "winter car" because I like it so much - a Saturn wagon)
The bottom line, I can't afford for him to get a job. If McDonald's paid him $20 per hour, it would be a losing proposition to me.
I see similarities between my teenage son's arguments and our current government direction. Obama, Pelosi, and Reid are all pushing their political agendas...at tremendous cost to us - the taxpayers...with very little hope of a true financial return on our investment. Even if the programs "work", we'll never retire the debt (with interest) in our lifetimes.
I don't want to say no to my son and crush his dreams. I want him to earn his own money and feel good about himself. I also want him to be balanced...studies/family/sports...then a job at McDonald's. I also need to teach him financial responsibility and hold him accountable. As the kids age, the problems become more complex, it's going to be an interesting spring/summer.