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olde drunk
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I hope that I have chosen the proper forum for this thread.
In other threads I have stated that within freewill we chose our birth and it’s environments. Now, I would like to offer a small insight, which may make this concept more acceptable.
I am sure that in pre-adolescence and adolescence (when we want to be and look cool to our peers) we all stood before the mirror and complained about this and that flaw. “Why was I born with such ugly hair”?
Now, if I say that I chose my body-type and it’s attributes before birth, I completely change the dynamics of the situation. I no longer blame god or my parents (wrong genes for this time period, lol). I accept responsibility for my situation, which leads to accepting self. The thought process is, ‘ok, what did I want to learn – experience by not having socially acceptable hair’?
Aren’t psychiatrists and psychologists looking for ways to have their clients ‘accept themselves’? With this small shift of perspective, we can understand that we are, what we are supposed to be. We can accept ourselves AND then, love ourselves. We can not be contributing to society if we do not love our neighbor. We can not love our neighbor, if we do not, first love ourselves.
We chose our parents, with their agreement, and the time, place and manner of our birth for a personal spiritual reason. While we have freewill, we also agree to the rules of physicality prior to birth.
Let us know what you think, after you look back and change you view of an unwanted event or experience.
Love&peace,
olde drunk
In other threads I have stated that within freewill we chose our birth and it’s environments. Now, I would like to offer a small insight, which may make this concept more acceptable.
I am sure that in pre-adolescence and adolescence (when we want to be and look cool to our peers) we all stood before the mirror and complained about this and that flaw. “Why was I born with such ugly hair”?
Now, if I say that I chose my body-type and it’s attributes before birth, I completely change the dynamics of the situation. I no longer blame god or my parents (wrong genes for this time period, lol). I accept responsibility for my situation, which leads to accepting self. The thought process is, ‘ok, what did I want to learn – experience by not having socially acceptable hair’?
Aren’t psychiatrists and psychologists looking for ways to have their clients ‘accept themselves’? With this small shift of perspective, we can understand that we are, what we are supposed to be. We can accept ourselves AND then, love ourselves. We can not be contributing to society if we do not love our neighbor. We can not love our neighbor, if we do not, first love ourselves.
We chose our parents, with their agreement, and the time, place and manner of our birth for a personal spiritual reason. While we have freewill, we also agree to the rules of physicality prior to birth.
Let us know what you think, after you look back and change you view of an unwanted event or experience.
Love&peace,
olde drunk