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Hahaha I am single now trust me I will be flirting! Nothing like dancing, flirtting and free drinks in town
How Do I End a Relationship When My Partner is Depressed?
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In summary: Be clear, tell him you don't want to be with him. If he tries to start an argument, don't engage in it. Just leave the conversation.In summary, the conversation revolves around the person wanting to break up with their partner but feeling manipulated and guilty for wanting to leave. The experts advise the person to stick to their decision and not let themselves be manipulated, as well as reminding them that they are not responsible for their partner's actions. They also suggest being clear and firm when breaking up, and not engaging in arguments or discussions about the decision. The conversation also touches on the importance of prioritizing one's own happiness and not staying in unhealthy relationships.
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cyrusabdollahi said:What about slapping them on the butt?
No good?.....
Do you know them? Unless you were hot or offering to pay for a new round of drinks or ready to start up a great conversation a girl in my country would probably slap you.
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cyrusabdollahi said:What about slapping them on the butt?
No good?.....
I don't think I can do that.
That's crossing the line.
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rhuthwaite said:
That sounds fair.
I slap her in the butt and she slaps me in the butt. :!)
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rhuthwaite said:
Pay for a round of drinks! She better be a super model for me to pay for her drinks.
It's $6.50 for a wiskey and coke every time I get one. Yeahhh right am I going to buy some random girl a drink for 10 bucks a pop.
Not in a billion million, million, years.
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You shouldn't have slapped her butt in the first place
Don't you pay for girls drinks?! Thats not gentleman like
Don't you pay for girls drinks?! Thats not gentleman like
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Hellllllllll No!
You know how many times I've seen a chump buy a girl a drink and the girl says thanks, BUBYE!
What a sucker. $10.00 he just lost.
You know how many times I've seen a chump buy a girl a drink and the girl says thanks, BUBYE!
What a sucker. $10.00 he just lost.
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rhuthwaite said:
Free drinks... bah.
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The guys here are more than willing to pay for drinks! As long as there is a slight chance they might get some...
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cyrusabdollahi said:
She better be a super model for me to pay for her drinks.
It's $6.50 for a wiskey and coke every time I get one. Yeahhh right am I going to buy some random girl a drink for 10 bucks a pop.
Not in a billion million, million, years.
totally with you on that bro.
I have to be hammered to buy a round of drinks, or the girl has to be smoking hot.
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I'm usually a good read on the "get some"... I guess it depends on my mood. 30 dollars some nights is worth it. Other nights... nahh.
I buy if she buys... that's my deal.
I buy if she buys... that's my deal.
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$6.50 for a w 'n c is not that expensive I was paying $8 for vodka n lemon the other night and then paid $50 for 3 shots, a b 'n c and a vodka n lemon when I shouted drinks for a couple of people
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Thats a good deal I guess. Its a bit more fair
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rhuthwaite said:
Eh, you forgot. Its $10 cover charge, $4.50 for a each beer (usually have 1 or 2), and $6.50 for a wiskey and coke (usually have 2).
Now throw on top of that me buying some random girl drinks, I don't think so.
Oh, and $5 for the metro train fair to DC...mmmmmmmm yeah, not going to pay for a random chick.
But if you want to buy me drinks, now that I'll be fine with
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Is that all you drink for the night? I'll pay for all your drinks! The blokes over here binge hardout that's why no girl offers to pay for them
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rhuthwaite said:
My kinda woman. <slaps her on the butt> Anyways, I'm going to sleep.
Nice foto, Ciao,
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Wait! what's a cover charge?
What time is it there?
What time is it there?
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I've never bought a lady a drink before.
I wouldn't call that being a gentlemen of any sort. It's like what cyrus said, being a chump.
You're better off being witty if you want to get some.
I wouldn't call that being a gentlemen of any sort. It's like what cyrus said, being a chump.
You're better off being witty if you want to get some.
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Ehhhh... buying tons of alcohol for a women often means you are more of a guy trying to have sex with them than a gentleman trying to meet them. But they know this the minute they start talking to you, unless you are a pretty good liar.
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I am no liar. Guess just saying that when I go to town I generally don't have to pay for drinks, unless i insist or decide its my turn to buy everyone a round.
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FrogPad said:
haha taken out of context here that is the funniest thing I've read in a while.
It sounds like a discussion on bargaining for a prostitute.
Gotta agree with what Jason and Mk said about not acting like a gentleman in general if you are buying drinks to 'get some'.
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Man, I'm glad that I don't live where you do. (Well, I am anyhow, but that cinches it.)cyrusabdollahi said:
We walk to the bar, no cover charge unless there's a special band such as when Prism or the Headpins are there, beers are $3.50... (with occassional freebees for being good customers)... and that's in Canuk currency. I generally have 6-15, and W maybe 6 or 10, plus $10-12 for supper and maybe another $5 for a few games of pool. We simply couldn't afford your kind of night-life.
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Danger said:
In Niagara Falls, Ontario, there is a bar that has a $15 cover charge, and $6 beers!
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We don't have cover charges at all we just pay for the drinks. Most people drink before they go out then don't buy many when they are out. Or we hit the shot shack before town
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shot shack?
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It one of the smallest bars you wil ever go to (except mini bar) and it just sells shots. You can only buy like 7 shots at a time and they are really cheap. Its awsome!
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They should just have an IV station, you could go, put a needle in your arm and wouldn't even have to taste the alcohol.
PS - That's friggen awesome. I'd kill it on spring break. I *heart* vodka
Where do you live by the way?
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by the way I just meant what country?
are you in the states? I've never heard of a shot shack so...
are you in the states? I've never heard of a shot shack so...
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New Zealand so if you come over here ever I'll take you there! Its my favourite place. Great for 18th and 21st birthdays - don't know if you guys have the tradition, either do a yard on 21st or 21 shots and on 18th - 18 shots
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I think your body ran out of blood and is pumping pure alcohol. Damn woman!
And all this time I thought Danger could drink.
And all this time I thought Danger could drink.
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My friend did 21 shots on his 21st... he was absolutly retarded. It's a bar that we usually go to. They made him carry around a bucket the entire night :)
He didn't use it... but there were a few times where I thought he was going to. We were asses to him also, I bought him all types of gross shots that night :)
New Zealand! That's cool. One of my really good friends moved out to Australlia about a year ago. She goes to Queensland.
What time is it over there?
It's 8:36... oh you prolly use a 24 hour clock. It's 20:36 here (oct 17).
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its 4.47pm (oct 18th)
Aussies nice I like it there go there pretty often (and south africa my homeland)! What shots do you count as gross? I love the samboka black! 21 shots and I am well on my way, good thing I don't get hang overs!
Aussies nice I like it there go there pretty often (and south africa my homeland)! What shots do you count as gross? I love the samboka black! 21 shots and I am well on my way, good thing I don't get hang overs!
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Some of my favorites to give to people I don't like are:
Cement Mixer
1 shot Bailey's Irish cream
1/2 shot lime juice
1/2 shot 151 proof rum
Fill one shot glass with Bailey's. Fill second shot glass with Lime and 151.
To Drink:
Pour Bailey's into mouth, do not swallow. Pour Lime and 151 into mouth. Shake head back and fourth, the shot will turn solid.
Four Horsemen
1/4 oz Bourbon (Jim Beam)
1/4 oz Tennessee whiskey (Jack Daniel's)
1/4 oz Scotch (Johnnie Walker Red)
1/4 oz Tequila (Jose Cuervo)
Shot of 151 (yuck)
This is good to give to people who only drink beer ;)
Then sometimes I'll just buy the girliest drink possible, like a sex on the beach, or ... oh I fogot, hehe.
Another good one is a,
Screaming Orgasm
That's actually a good tasting shot though, but it's fun to make people buy that for you.
Cement Mixer
1 shot Bailey's Irish cream
1/2 shot lime juice
1/2 shot 151 proof rum
Fill one shot glass with Bailey's. Fill second shot glass with Lime and 151.
To Drink:
Pour Bailey's into mouth, do not swallow. Pour Lime and 151 into mouth. Shake head back and fourth, the shot will turn solid.
Four Horsemen
1/4 oz Bourbon (Jim Beam)
1/4 oz Tennessee whiskey (Jack Daniel's)
1/4 oz Scotch (Johnnie Walker Red)
1/4 oz Tequila (Jose Cuervo)
Shot of 151 (yuck)
This is good to give to people who only drink beer ;)
Then sometimes I'll just buy the girliest drink possible, like a sex on the beach, or ... oh I fogot, hehe.
Another good one is a,
Screaming Orgasm
That's actually a good tasting shot though, but it's fun to make people buy that for you.
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How can you not get hang overs! Are you really a robot?
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I don't get hangovers either. That might, perhaps, be because it would necessitate sobering up in the first place.
Frogpad, some of the **** that you describe will be added to my list of things to order for people that I don't like. (As mentioned elsewhere in this forum, I was a bartender/bouncer in a cowboy bar for 17 years, so I had my methods.
) One shot that you didn't mention, however, which is a standard surprise birthday gift here is the Prairie Fire. That's a shot of the cheapest tequila available with about a quarter teaspoon or so of Tabasco.
Frogpad, some of the **** that you describe will be added to my list of things to order for people that I don't like. (As mentioned elsewhere in this forum, I was a bartender/bouncer in a cowboy bar for 17 years, so I had my methods.
) One shot that you didn't mention, however, which is a standard surprise birthday gift here is the Prairie Fire. That's a shot of the cheapest tequila available with about a quarter teaspoon or so of Tabasco.