Heres another reason this implication is doomed. All ideals have grobner bases, but most ideals, even those with fewer than n generators, do not have a regular sequence as basis. ideals that do, define so called "complete intersection" varieties. Such varieties have nicer properties than completely random varieties. For example they are locally equidimensional.
Hence the union of the z axis and the x,y plane cannot be a complete intersection, since the origin lies on two components of different dimensions.
Thus the ideal (z) intersect (x,y) = (xz,yz), cannot have a regulars sequence as basis.
Even components of the same dim ension cannot meet in a smaller set than expected,
E.g. the union of two planes meeting at a point is not a complete intersection.
Thus the ideal (x,y) intersect (z,w) = (xz, xw, yz, yw) in k[x,y,z,w] does not have a basis of regular elements.
Look in the commutative algebra book of Eisenbud under "complete intersection" for this.
There is one situation however where something positive can be said. I believe he proves there that if a local ring has an ideal with n generators, and if it contains a regular sequence with n elements, then any generating set of n elements is also regular. Hence if an ideal contains a regular sequence of n elements, and if it can be generated by a gorbner basis also having n elements, then that grobner basis is regular.
But I do not know if this makes sense since it is about local rings, but it could be affecting the examples you may have ben looking at. I.e. your examples may have been regular essentially by the accident of looking at very small and simple cases, as happens in books.
i.e. general grobner bases are quite complicated, but the simplest examples may accidentally be regular.