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russ_watters
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@TeethWhitener and @Ryan_m_b , let me try to split the difference:
Hand-me down clothes and a beater car while puttig $50k into retirement savings and paying a 15 year morgage say to me a person is NOT "living lavishly", but is making frugal choices to live within their means and plan for the future. You COULD live more lavishly by swapping the 15 year mortgage for a 30 year mortgage and a shiny new Audi, and the fact that you haven't is a positive thing - and a need for sympathy is not implied to me in your description.
As an engineer, few people I work with are below the median and most are in the top 20%, but i think you can tell a lot about lifestyle choices by things like what car a person drives...
However:
[Edit] Caveat: a lot of ground was lost during the great recession, that has just started to be made up, for home ownership. Googling, I do see that the home ownership rate is still a touch (about 1%) below 1976, after dropping from 69% to 62% as fall-out from the housing crisis.
Hand-me down clothes and a beater car while puttig $50k into retirement savings and paying a 15 year morgage say to me a person is NOT "living lavishly", but is making frugal choices to live within their means and plan for the future. You COULD live more lavishly by swapping the 15 year mortgage for a 30 year mortgage and a shiny new Audi, and the fact that you haven't is a positive thing - and a need for sympathy is not implied to me in your description.
As an engineer, few people I work with are below the median and most are in the top 20%, but i think you can tell a lot about lifestyle choices by things like what car a person drives...
However:
That isn't true in the US and it would surprise me if it were true in the UK. It is a common/persistent/disappointing myth that living standards are going down. They are not.Ryan said:What is sad is that what you're describing is the standard middle class cultural narrative (I am from the UK but I suspect the US and UK are in line on this one). Forty years ago home ownership, savings, pension funds etc were all pretty standard even if just one partner was working in a standard job. Now, especially in cities, this is a pipe dream for anyone who isn't earning significantly over the average.
[Edit] Caveat: a lot of ground was lost during the great recession, that has just started to be made up, for home ownership. Googling, I do see that the home ownership rate is still a touch (about 1%) below 1976, after dropping from 69% to 62% as fall-out from the housing crisis.
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