What Happens When Girls Drink Too Much?

[0TheSwerve0]

sadly familiar

1. WE HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHERE OUR PURSE IS.
2. WE BELIEVE THAT DANCING WITH OUR ARMS OVERHEAD AND WIGGLING OUR BUTT WHILE YELLING "WOO-HOO!" IS TRULY THE SEXIEST DANCE MOVE AROUND.
3. WE'VE SUDDENLY DECIDED THAT WE WANT TO KICK SOMEONE'S ASS AND HONESTLY BELIEVE WE COULD DO IT TOO.
4. IN OUR LAST TRIP TO PEE, WE REALIZE THAT WE NOW LOOK MORE LIKE A HOMELESS HOOKER THAN THE GODDESS WE WERE JUST FOUR HOURS AGO.
5.WE START CRYING AND TELLING EVERYONE WE SEE THAT WE LOVE THEM SOOOOO MUCH.
6. WE GET EXTREMELY EXCITED AND JUMP UP AND DOWN EVERY TIME A NEW SONG PLAYS BECAUSE "OH MY GOD! I LOVE THIS SONG!"
7. WE'VE FOUND A DEEPER/SPIRITUAL SIDE TO THE GEEK SITTING NEXT TO US.
8. WE'VE SUDDENLY TAKEN UP SMOKING AND BECOME REALLY GOOD AT IT.
9. WE YELL AT THE BARTENDER, WHO WE BELIEVE CHEATED US BY GIVING US JUST LEMONADE, BUT THAT'S JUST BECAUSE WE CAN NO LONGER TASTE THE GIN.
10. WE THINK WE ARE IN BED, BUT OUR PILLOW FEELS STRANGELY LIKE THE KITCHEN FLOOR (or the mop?)
11. WE FAIL TO NOTICE THAT THE TOILET LID'S DOWN WHEN WE SIT ON IT.
12. WE TAKE OU R SHOES OFF BECAUSE WE BELIEVE IT'S THEIR FAULT THAT WE'RE HAVING PROBLEMS WALKING STRAIGHT.

 

[Pengwuino]

13. They use capital letters for everything

 

[Astronuc]

And I would escort such a woman home and make sure she got home safely, with her purse, and her integrity and honor intact.

 

[zoobyshoe]

And I would escort such a woman home and make sure she got home safely, with her purse, and her integrity intact.

I've been out and about in the real world lately and this whole chivalry thing is dead and burried. Girls now want devilish, confident seducers.

 

[wolram]

I am sure all the PF females are perfect ladies

 

[Lisa!]

I am sure all the PF females are perfect ladies

Sycophant...

 

[wolram]

Sycophant...

Well i did think long and hard about one member, i decided that the above
discription did not sound correct even for her.

 

[Lisa!]

Well i did think long and hard about one member, i decided that the above
discription did not sound correct even for her.

Generalization is dangerous, you know...

 

[wolram]

I have seen how some girls behave at a (rave) that was a real
eye opener, but could it be, no surly not--------------.

 

[Astronuc]

I've been out and about in the real world lately and this whole chivalry thing is dead and burried. Girls now want devilish, confident seducers.

I've heard that. I have a friend in his 40's who is dating, and he pretty much indicated that some women in their 20's - 40's are as wild as some men. I find that rather sad and unfortunate. I would hope my daughter is not like that when she is away from home.

As for girls wanting devilish, confident seducers, I would have to disagree, based on what women tell me directly.

Women wanted to be treated with respect, perhaps with the right guy, someone who is a confident seducer to some degree.

I think women want a man who can satsify them psychologically/emotionally/spiritually, intellectually, as well as sexually. At least that's what some women have indicated to me.

 

[Echo 6 Sierra]

The comedienne Brett Butler (?) once said that girls view men as cars. In their youth they want the cherry red Corvette with a souped up motor to take out on the freeway, go 150mph for a couple of years until they get tired of it and then wrap it around an oak tree and laughingly walk away from the burning hunk of useless metal and plastic. Then they go get a nice, big, confortable Buick with all the extras and enjoy the rest of their life cruising in comfort and safety...apparently, I'm a Buick...without the extras...or comfort.

 

[Jimmy Snyder]

And I would escort such a woman home and make sure she got home safely, with her purse, and her integrity and honor intact.

I once got into a fight over a young lady's honor, but she won.

 

[BobG]

sadly familiar

1. WE HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHERE OUR PURSE IS.
2. WE BELIEVE THAT DANCING WITH OUR ARMS OVERHEAD AND WIGGLING OUR BUTT WHILE YELLING "WOO-HOO!" IS TRULY THE SEXIEST DANCE MOVE AROUND.
3. WE'VE SUDDENLY DECIDED THAT WE WANT TO KICK SOMEONE'S ASS AND HONESTLY BELIEVE WE COULD DO IT TOO.
4. IN OUR LAST TRIP TO PEE, WE REALIZE THAT WE NOW LOOK MORE LIKE A HOMELESS HOOKER THAN THE GODDESS WE WERE JUST FOUR HOURS AGO.
5.WE START CRYING AND TELLING EVERYONE WE SEE THAT WE LOVE THEM SOOOOO MUCH.
6. WE GET EXTREMELY EXCITED AND JUMP UP AND DOWN EVERY TIME A NEW SONG PLAYS BECAUSE "OH MY GOD! I LOVE THIS SONG!"
7. WE'VE FOUND A DEEPER/SPIRITUAL SIDE TO THE GEEK SITTING NEXT TO US.
8. WE'VE SUDDENLY TAKEN UP SMOKING AND BECOME REALLY GOOD AT IT.
9. WE YELL AT THE BARTENDER, WHO WE BELIEVE CHEATED US BY GIVING US JUST LEMONADE, BUT THAT'S JUST BECAUSE WE CAN NO LONGER TASTE THE GIN.
10. WE THINK WE ARE IN BED, BUT OUR PILLOW FEELS STRANGELY LIKE THE KITCHEN FLOOR (or the mop?)
11. WE FAIL TO NOTICE THAT THE TOILET LID'S DOWN WHEN WE SIT ON IT.
12. WE TAKE OU R SHOES OFF BECAUSE WE BELIEVE IT'S THEIR FAULT THAT WE'RE HAVING PROBLEMS WALKING STRAIGHT.

It's a sad, sad thing when girls drink too much - especially Irish girls.

Have you heard about the Cooney's, the Russell's and Malloy's?
Their girls all left the farm and went to chasin' city boys . . .
Oh, isn't it a pity, when Irish girls grow up?

Not my girls, though. I've told them how to live.

Your lips will not touch alcohol, it is tea that you will sup.
Isn't it a pity, when Irish girls grow up?

- Tom Russell's "When Irish Girls Grow Up" (with the best version sung by Dolores Keane, who inspired the song by explaining how Irish women can gossip, even though gossip is sinful, because they ask forgiveness ahead of time.)

 

[Beeza]

I've heard that. I have a friend in his 40's who is dating, and he pretty much indicated that some women in their 20's - 40's are as wild as some men. I find that rather sad and unfortunate. I would hope my daughter is not like that when she is away from home.

As for girls wanting devilish, confident seducers, I would have to disagree, based on what women tell me directly.

Women wanted to be treated with respect, perhaps with the right guy, someone who is a confident seducer to some degree.

I think women want a man who can satsify them psychologically/emotionally/spiritually, intellectually, as well as sexually. At least that's what some women have indicated to me.

Older, more mature women yes. With young girls around their 20s.. very few of them go with the nice guy.

 

[Chi Meson]

Take my love, Take my land, Take me where I cannot stand. I don't care, I'm still free, you can't take the sky from me. Take me out to the black, tell them I ain't comin' back.
Burn the land and boil the sea, you can't take the sky from me.
There's no place I can be, since I found Serenity, but you can't take the sky from me...

But they did take it away, didn't they?

 

[Hammie]

Older, more mature women yes. With young girls around their 20s.. very few of them go with the nice guy.

Explains my luck..

 

[Hammie]

Sheesh, what happened to the edit feature?

I must be too nice. It is ignoring me..

 

[Evo]

There seems to be a glitch with Firefox and the edit function. If you use firefox, right click on the edit button and open a new window.

 

[franznietzsche]

There seems to be a glitch with Firefox and the edit function. If you use firefox, right click on the edit button and open a new window.

Its always worked fine for me.

 

[Evo]

Seems a lot of people are experiencing problems, but there's a work around. https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?p=998199#post998199post998199

 

[zoobyshoe]

As for girls wanting devilish, confident seducers, I would have to disagree, based on what women tell me directly.

Don't listen to what they say: watch who they gravitate toward.

 

[vsage]

Don't listen to what they say: watch who they gravitate toward.

I agree 100%. Here is some food for thought, and sounds very plausible to me. A solid theory to fit the experimental data :p http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html (caution the truth hurts for those women who click on the link!, occasional obscenities also). Not exactly related to the topic at hand but it's a somewhat lighthearted take on the subject.

 

[0TheSwerve0]

Seen that. Guys are so silly, why do they think they know everything about women? One thing we have in common is that we don't like being condescended to, especially when it concerns OUR nature. What's the deal with the nice guy/bad guy dichotomy, too? The guys I've met have unique personalities and cannot be so easily categorized. Men just use this as an excuse when they can't get a date. Act the way you are and treat a woman as a fellow individual with her own unique personality and wants. No need to treat her like glass. Women can take care of themselves and we are not so naive as society tries to portray us. We're animals just like men

As for chivalry, it isn't simply about opening doors and such for women; it concerns how you interact with others in general. Here's a link on it http://www.chivalrytoday.com/

 

[0TheSwerve0]

13. They use capital letters for everything

That's how a drunk chick would speak, not realizing she's yelling

 

[0TheSwerve0]

And I would escort such a woman home and make sure she got home safely, with her purse, and her integrity and honor intact.

her "honor" huh? As I said, we are not made of glass and our honor does not depend on our sexual life (which is what I think you were talking about). Such attitudes have led to cultural practices like honor killings. Now forcing a woman or any person to do what they do not want to do is a different matter. That takes away a person's autonomy and mental health.

 

[0TheSwerve0]

I've heard that. I have a friend in his 40's who is dating, and he pretty much indicated that some women in their 20's - 40's are as wild as some men. I find that rather sad and unfortunate.

What is wrong with women acting "wild?" You mean partying, enjoying their sexuality? Or is it just rude behavior like being obnoxious, because some people are just that way - men and women. Let them be who they are.

 

[0TheSwerve0]

Older, more mature women yes. With young girls around their 20s.. very few of them go with the nice guy.

What are these factory made? What is a nice guy? Is this a guild or what?!

 

[theCandyman]

Five posts in a row! Is that a record?!

 

[0TheSwerve0]

yeah, think I should just merge 'em?

 

[big man]

her "honor" huh? As I said, we are not made of glass and our honor does not depend on our sexual life (which is what I think you were talking about). Such attitudes have led to cultural practices like honor killings. Now forcing a woman or any person to do what they do not want to do is a different matter. That takes away a person's autonomy and mental health.

I honestly don't know why you're getting annoyed (so it seems) at astronuc's comment. It is absolutely correct. Whether he did or didn't mean it in the sense that you're getting all riled up about, I would think that somebody's honour does to a certain degree depend on their sexual life.

I don't care who you are (male or female), you will do things you wouldn't normally do when you are drunk. Therefore, if someone were to ensure that you didn't do these things and that no one took advantage of you then your integrity and honour would remain intact.

 

[Astronuc]

her "honor" huh? As I said, we are not made of glass and our honor does not depend on our sexual life (which is what I think you were talking about). Such attitudes have led to cultural practices like honor killings. Now forcing a woman or any person to do what they do not want to do is a different matter. That takes away a person's autonomy and mental health.

Honor killings do not reflect the 'honor' of the woman, but rather the perceived 'honor' of the family. Honor killings have nothing to do with honor.

I know women are not made of glass. However, I would not take advantage of woman or any person who is intoxicated or has less than full control of their mental faculties.

What is wrong with women acting "wild?" You mean partying, enjoying their sexuality? Or is it just rude behavior like being obnoxious, because some people are just that way - men and women. Let them be who they are.

I suppose that depends on the meaning of "wild". I was 'wild' myself at one time. On the other hand, I was pretty reserved with women.

I have been criticised by some, including friends, for being too 'old fashioned'. So be it. My wife has been my one and only intimate partner, and we just celebrated our 24th anniversary, although we have been together just over 25 years. So, I've been out of the singles scene for a long time. My parents will observe 50 years of marriage this year, my paternal grandparents were married for over 50 years, and my maternal grandparents were married over 40 years. Both marriages of my grandparents ended with the death of my grandmothers.

 

[0TheSwerve0]

I honestly don't know why you're getting annoyed (so it seems) at astronuc's comment. It is absolutely correct. Whether he did or didn't mean it in the sense that you're getting all riled up about, I would think that somebody's honour does to a certain degree depend on their sexual life.

I don't care who you are (male or female), you will do things you wouldn't normally do when you are drunk. Therefore, if someone were to ensure that you didn't do these things and that no one took advantage of you then your integrity and honour would remain intact.

It isn't annoyance, it's caution. I just ask that people be aware of their mindset. And yes, male or female, it is good to look out for people...but that's not what he said. It was more of a protector role than a friend role he was taking on. Would you try to walk a male friend home to keep his "honor" intact? And what is honor? Why is it tied up with sexuality other than the fact that tradition has dictated it to be so? If I am sexually promiscuous, then do I have more/less honor? Do virgin's have more honor? Are you sure you are not talking about integrity?

 

[0TheSwerve0]

Honor killings do not reflect the 'honor' of the woman, but rather the perceived 'honor' of the family. Honor killings have nothing to do with honor.

I know women are not made of glass. However, I would not take advantage of woman or any person who is intoxicated or has less than full control of their mental faculties.

Is your definition of honor the real one? Aren't both the former definition and our traditional definition of woman's honor tied up with woman's sexual practices? Honor killings and our own cultural notion of woman's honor come from the same Abrahamic religion teachings. Amazingly, it both victimizes and blames the woman.

So, if I put the moves on a guy who was drunk, would I be taking advantage of him?

 

[Astronuc]

Is your definition of honor the real one? Aren't both the former definition and our traditional definition of woman's honor tied up with woman's sexual practices? Honor killings and our own cultural notion of woman's honor come from the same Abrahamic religion teachings. Amazingly, it both victimizes and blames the woman.

I have escorted male friends who were drunk in order to keep them from harming themselves, and I've prevented a few from getting into fights. And I would certainly escort a drunk woman to her place of residence, and I would most certainly not take advantage of her.

Perhaps I should have used a term different than honor. In the sense of honor killings, as I said, is has nothing to do with 'honor' of the woman, and in fact the act is dishonorable.

I disagree with the double standards regarding human sexuality.

So, if I put the moves on a guy who was drunk, would I be taking advantage of him?

Yes, of course you would, because someone who is drunk has impaired judgement.

 

[Gokul43201]

Yes, of course you would, because someone who is drunk has impaired judgement.

And did he have impaired judgement when he chose to get drunk ?

Can't disclaim responsibility for one's self on the grounds that one is drunk.