infinitetime said:
Anyone?
I'm dyin' here...
A stiff neck can be the result of stress, a trauma that occurred there at some time, or a problem somewhere else in the body that transfers there occasionally (I know someone with an intestinal injury that causes it). Most people hold stress somewhere, and often you will see physical problems in those areas. If you think about it, the neck is a major pathway between the brain and the body, so there are obviously a lot of nerves passing through there.
I injured my neck in a wrestling accident when I was still in school, and after that it seemed to make that the place that feels it when I get stressed about anything.
When Ida Rolf was teaching, I had the opportunity to be one of the subjects in a class she was teaching to future Rolfers. No matter what you think of Rolfing, one thing I noticed was how the work on my neck relaxed my entire body. Since then I've had friends apply accupressure to nerves in my neck with the same results.
A robust version of accupressure I learned from a professional body worker, is to press along your neck with your thumb looking for painful spots. When you find one, press hard. If it doesn't hurt LOTS you've not found the right spot. When you do find one, it can hurt so bad it takes your breath away, but that's one you want. (Besides the pain, another symptom is that these spots you are looking for feel "hard" because they are more tensed than normal tissue.)
What you do requires four aspects which you must do together:
1. Lie down, fully prone, and then press as hard as you can take it on that pain spot.
2. Survey your body for any place that is tensing up from the pain, and then relax that; keep surveying and relaxing throughout the process.
3. Imagine you are sort of "breathing through" exactly where the pain is.
4. Keep it up (and it can take a couple of minutes) until you feel that nerve you are pressing suddenly give way. The pain will subside, and that particular spot will get soft.
With me at least, I usually find more than one spot, and on both sides of my neck. If you are really stressed, this technique might not work totally, but it almost always works somewhat. If you have a partner that can learn this, it is best to let her/him do it for you so you can focus on relaxing and breathing .through pain. Your partner has to be merciless about making you suffer the pain of the pressure. It's on you to relax and breath, not on your partner to go easy (within reason of course).