https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_relativity#Definition_and_basic_properties
Definition and basic properties
General relativity is a
metric theory of gravitation. At its core are
Einstein's equations, which describe the relation between the geometry of a four-dimensional,
pseudo-Riemannian manifold representing spacetime, and the
energy–momentum contained in that spacetime.
[36] Phenomena that in classical mechanics are ascribed to the action of the force of gravity (such as
free-fall, orbital motion, and
spacecraft trajectories), correspond to inertial motion within a curved geometry of spacetime in general relativity; there is no gravitational force deflecting objects from their natural, straight paths. Instead, gravity corresponds to changes in the properties of space and time, which in turn changes the straightest-possible paths that objects will naturally follow.
[37] The curvature is, in turn, caused by the energy–momentum of matter. Paraphrasing the relativist
John Archibald Wheeler, spacetime tells matter how to move; matter tells spacetime how to curve.
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Following.
Mass is curving spaces. Curved space is more dense (than flat one).
Surely in GR there is no poping on and out of existence.
:)