You are falling into a VERY common trap. QM is a theory about observations. The primitive of the theory is an observation, like point particle is a primitive a classical mechanics, like event is a primitive of probability theory etc etc. What properties a quantum system has when not observed the theory is silent about. The state is simply a device to help predict the probabilities of observations. It says nothing about if it's real or not. We have interpretations where its real, others where its subjective knowledge, and others where it applies to an ensemble. Again the theory is silent on the issue.
The screen at the back of the slits is an observation. Remove it and the theory says nothing since its about observations. It says nothing about waves dissipating etc etc. You can use the state to figure out what would happen if it was there but that doesn't mean there is anything going on. In fact, since the wave particle duality is wrong that explanation of the double slit experiment is wrong. Here is a correct quantum one:
http://arxiv.org/ftp/quant-ph/papers/0703/0703126.pdf
The explanation of the double slit is each slit 'scatters' the particle at an unpredictable angle because of the uncertainty principle. Note scatter in inverted commas - it doesn't mean it has a real trajectory that's scattered - simply that if you measured its momentum it will be scattered. Just behind the slits the state is the superposition of the state just behind each slit. And when you chug through that math as per the paper above you get an interference pattern on the screen. No screen - no observation - and the theory says nothing.
That quote from Bohm is philosophical waffle - which Bohm rather enjoyed rambling on about - and Feynman for example chided him on that tendency (I recall reading about an interesting exchange along those lines when he explained BM to Feynman - I think it was Surely Your Joking - he said, or at least its my recollection, something like Dave - we have this perfectly valid theory that predicts things perfectly well so what's the point). The theory does not say 'The usual interpretation asserts that the particle is “potentially” present in the whole of the box B, with a probability ||2 at each point.' That's Bohm's interpretation of Copenhagen - his use of the word potentia is his own - Copenhagen doesn't say that. In Copenhagen the state is subjective knowledge.
QM says precisely nothing about when it's not observed. Remove the screen and the theory says nothing. Interpretations may say something - Bohm's picturesque language may suggest things, but the theory says nothing.
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Bill