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Sharat
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think you approach the issue from a far to simplistic point of view, speaking as someone who has deliberated over his own death ( and i do not wish this to be a sob story for I am no longer in that realm) but speaking as a man who seriously deliberated over the issue and came to the conclusion that though it was the simple solution it was morally unacceptable, let me recount why
I went through deliberations for a week, with myself, I had no intention of either informing anyone of my thought, nor discussing it with anyone and though obviously fear did play a factor
Ultimately it boiled down to me sitting down and watching a program on North Korea, a BBC documentary, where they interviewed a man who ran a prison a gulag ( can you imagine a gulag in North Korea)
In that documentary i came to learn that in North Korea if you commit a crime or you are perceived to commit a crime whether in fact you may have been innocent is irrelevant, you go to these gulags, not content to punish the individual, the next generation of your family also receives a prison sentence and so to does the third generation
So the reality is, you can be born into a prison there by virtue of having a grandfather who may have been innocent yet you would still have to do a lifetime of hard cold labour
In the gulag they have the five member rule meaning that if you commit an offense the 5 families (these are family affairs in North Korea) surrounding your immediate proximity are also punished. Collective culpability is what it is referred to over there
When I though that things in my life were difficult to the point that I wished to take my life, i think of these people, people who never had a chance to start with in the first place and though some may succumb and opt out the majority persevere, whether it is due to lack of opportunity or not is irrelevant to me
I decided taking the easy the way out was just that, far to easy, things have a tendency to be bad and get worse, but no matter how bad it gets there is always worse
To take the easy way out and commit suicide in that context is not acceptable, perhaps excusable for euthanasia i would not argue that point, but for people who can walk and talk and are free
It is disrespectful, and should you wish to die in a disrespectful manner negating anything you meant as a human being, your life meaningless
then i would argue be my guest. you mean nothing
I went through deliberations for a week, with myself, I had no intention of either informing anyone of my thought, nor discussing it with anyone and though obviously fear did play a factor
Ultimately it boiled down to me sitting down and watching a program on North Korea, a BBC documentary, where they interviewed a man who ran a prison a gulag ( can you imagine a gulag in North Korea)
In that documentary i came to learn that in North Korea if you commit a crime or you are perceived to commit a crime whether in fact you may have been innocent is irrelevant, you go to these gulags, not content to punish the individual, the next generation of your family also receives a prison sentence and so to does the third generation
So the reality is, you can be born into a prison there by virtue of having a grandfather who may have been innocent yet you would still have to do a lifetime of hard cold labour
In the gulag they have the five member rule meaning that if you commit an offense the 5 families (these are family affairs in North Korea) surrounding your immediate proximity are also punished. Collective culpability is what it is referred to over there
When I though that things in my life were difficult to the point that I wished to take my life, i think of these people, people who never had a chance to start with in the first place and though some may succumb and opt out the majority persevere, whether it is due to lack of opportunity or not is irrelevant to me
I decided taking the easy the way out was just that, far to easy, things have a tendency to be bad and get worse, but no matter how bad it gets there is always worse
To take the easy way out and commit suicide in that context is not acceptable, perhaps excusable for euthanasia i would not argue that point, but for people who can walk and talk and are free
It is disrespectful, and should you wish to die in a disrespectful manner negating anything you meant as a human being, your life meaningless
then i would argue be my guest. you mean nothing