Violence In The USA: What Level of Acceptance?

[Evo]

Hmm. I grew up not far from you, and I saw plenty cops, and eventually even got to know some. I could tell you some stories.

A kid in my junior high packed a gun (.32 revolver) for pretection. Other kids carried knives or brass knuckles to school. For a while, I carried a switchblade - in school.

Once in a while, I'd get jumped - blindsided - even at school - on the play ground. And that was one of the safer schools.

The neighborhood I grew up in was closer to Clear Lake and there was no violence, no police, the only minorities I ever met before high school were the maids. Yes, I grew up having maids, all families had maids, so we probably were raised culturally different, yet I didn't freak out when I had a gun pulled on me while I was in the shower, talk about being vulnerable. I also didn't freak out when that guy was killed, he was shot by someone driving by in a car, yes, we were in a bad part of town. I never thought "oh my god, that bullet could have hit me!". It didn't hit me, so nothing to get worked up about.

I also don't think we are more violent, I just think the demographics have changed. Didn't you watch all of those old "cops and robbers' movies based on the prohibition era? There was a lot of violence and crime back then.

 

[rewebster]

Growing up with 'maids' is not a common thing---not 'all the families' had maids in the demographic I grew up in--it's a more 'protected' world than most of us grew up in. I can't relate to without thinking about it for a while what kind of life growing up in that environment may be, except for what I seen on TV, to try to perceive growing up where all or most of the families had 'maids'.

Maybe that may explain some things on the perception of those things that you didn't get 'worked up about' that others would have reacted differently to that you've mentioned, and have talked about.---hmmmm...


There may not be too many posters on the forum (percentage wise) that grew up in a 'depressed' area, as the educated DO usually come from educated families, as to give us a perspective of the really rough side of society--I mean really rough. We may have met them or know them, but the educated do not usually socialize/live with with those with eighth grade levels of education as a personal choice--and education often defines the acceptance level of violence, too.

 

[Gokul43201]

Stats: http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm

Crime rates have generally been on the decline for over a decade now, and the rate of violent crimes and vehicle thefts is now comparable to what it was in the mid-80s. Responses to changes in crime trends, however, can be expected to involve some lag time. The crime rate since the 60s, to the peak rate in the 90s, more than quadrupled. So, yes, during this period, the violence has increased. I would not be surprised if this increase in violence caused police departments to change their rules of engagement. A continued decline in crime over the coming years may similarly result in some loosening up.

 

[rewebster]

During times of economic distress, crime (including violence) usually increases. I wonder how long before, and if, the present economic situation, and what and if it gets worse, will effect the crime rate.

In the USA at least, prisons have more inmates than they ever have had.

 

[edward]

During times of economic distress, crime (including violence) usually increases. I wonder how long before, and if, the present economic situation, and what and if it gets worse, will effect the crime rate.

In the USA at least, prisons have more inmates than they ever have had.

The first of the inmates who were incarcerated after mandatory sentencing laws were passed in the 90's will soon be up for parole. Lock and load America.

Killadelphia Provides doctors for Iraq.

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Story?id=3951568&page=1

 

[edward]

Stats: http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm

Crime rates have generally been on the decline for over a decade now, and the rate of violent crimes and vehicle thefts is now comparable to what it was in the mid-80s. Responses to changes in crime trends, however, can be expected to involve some lag time. The crime rate since the 60s, to the peak rate in the 90s, more than quadrupled. So, yes, during this period, the violence has increased. I would not be surprised if this increase in violence caused police departments to change their rules of engagement. A continued decline in crime over the coming years may similarly result in some loosening up.

My OP referred to my belief in the apparent desensitization of Americans to violence. We have had a lot of posts on the crime rate and how it has fallen, but this in no way address the question. Have we become desensitized to violence? I say yes.

I used the story of an actual event to demonstrate the desensitization and it became a football for avoiding the original premise.

I see many posts that support the pointing of a policeman's weapon at a young woman during a routine traffic stop as being a necessity in todays society. It was vigorously defined by some as being normal.

The shocked young woman from England was criticized as being naive and ignorant. Is she really? Or is she just not yet desensitized to the American way of life?

My point is this proves my point about our being desensitized to violence.

 

[Poop-Loops]

My OP referred to my belief in the apparent desensitization of Americans to violence. We have had a lot of posts on the crime rate and how it has fallen, but this in no way address the question. Have we become desensitized to violence? I say yes.

I'm sorry, did you completely skip over my post? You know, the one right under your original one?

The one that made it clear that violence has been going down with time? And with more violence in the past, don't you think people were more desensitized? You know, when half of your siblings wouldn't make it to age 1? Where you had to go out and kill your own pig for dinner?

Go read the Bible and tell me we are more desensitized now. Go read what happened to people during wars before things like the Geneva convention or even before people could "cleanly" get killed with guns.

You are ignorant of history if you are claiming that a movies and music can desensitize a population to violence and then go ahead and use 2 examples, one of kids who are "special needs", so they are either mentally retarded (not it) or already misbehaving to the point of having to be in a separate class room. And your second example had no violence and was just an honest mistake on the part of your friend. I'm willing to bet the cop was at least half as afraid as your friend was, simply because he might have to shoot somebody. No, cops aren't trained killers, the cop didn't want to shoot either.

 

[Gokul43201]

I'm sorry, did you completely skip over my post? You know, the one right under your original one?

The one that made it clear that violence has been going down with time? And with more violence in the past, don't you think people were more desensitized? You know, when half of your siblings wouldn't make it to age 1? Where you had to go out and kill your own pig for dinner?

Go read the Bible and tell me we are more desensitized now.

I don't think Ed is making the claim that we're more desensitized now compared to 2 millennia ago. I believe he's talking about a timescale of about the last 30-40 years.

 

[edward]

I don't think Ed is making the claim that we're more desensitized now compared to 2 millennia ago. I believe he's talking about a timescale of about the last 30-40 years.

You got that right.

 

[Astronuc]

The neighborhood I grew up in was closer to Clear Lake and there was no violence, no police, the only minorities I ever met before high school were the maids. Yes, I grew up having maids, all families had maids, so we probably were raised culturally different, yet I didn't freak out when I had a gun pulled on me while I was in the shower, talk about being vulnerable. I also didn't freak out when that guy was killed, he was shot by someone driving by in a car, yes, we were in a bad part of town. I never thought "oh my god, that bullet could have hit me!". It didn't hit me, so nothing to get worked up about.

You're exceptional.

I lived not to far from River Oaks, so I knew families who had maids, and some families on our street had part-time maids. My younger sister-in-law's family has maids, and I think she still has a part-time maid, and in fact my sister has a part-time maid.

My elementary, junior high and high schools were racially mixed with a proportion of black and hispanic students at about the same level as the city. I had a number of black and hispanic friends. The guys I had to look out for were the older kids who'd been held back once or twice.

After my earlier post, I recalled that one of the toughest kids in school tried to take me down during a football game. I was playing center, and at one point before I tossed the ball back to the QB, this kid came down hard with his elbow on my back. I just about blacked out and almost buckled, but I didn't go down, but rather stood up. I guess that surprised him, so he paused. A couple of other tough guys, who more friendly toward me, told him off because they thought it was uncool to jump me like he did. After that, he left me alone, and later that year, he was actually more friendly.

I also don't think we are more violent, I just think the demographics have changed. Didn't you watch all of those old "cops and robbers" movies based on the prohibition era? There was a lot of violence and crime back then.

One means movies with Cagney, Bogart, Edward G. Robinson? Yeah - I've seen them. Let's not forget the civil rights era.

Perhaps the perception of violence increasing or decreasing is based upon experience. I also know some crime is not reported - particularly domestic violence.

 

[Schrodinger's Dog]

I realize that some people are more emotionally fragile than others, and your future daughter-in-law seems to be emotionaly fragile. That she couldn't work for several days really is a bit extreme of a response to what happened and it surely doesn't make what the officer did wrong.

She was aware that there was a situation where the police had pulled them over, she knew there was an officer there that had no idea what was going on, common sense dictates that you don't do anything.

I don't know the first time I had a gun waved in my face it was pretty weird. Admittedly it was on a navy base, but I can see why people who aren't used to seeing guns would feel a bit shocked by having one held to there heads. And no what the officer did is not wrong at all.

I find seeing police officers walk around train stations with assault rifles or mp5's pretty weird. It just feels very strange.

 

[rewebster]

I don't know the first time I had a gun waved in my face it was pretty weird. Admittedly it was on a navy base, but I can see why people who aren't used to seeing guns would feel a bit shocked by having one held to there heads. And no what the officer did is not wrong at all.

I find seeing police officers walk around train stations with assault rifles or mp5's pretty weird. It just feels very strange.

I think you're right---I haven't had a gun to my head either; but one time I was picked out for, seemingly, no reason at all why, and a drunk put a knife to my throat----and I remember that still, way too vividly, to ever forget.

 

[Poop-Loops]

I don't think Ed is making the claim that we're more desensitized now compared to 2 millennia ago. I believe he's talking about a timescale of about the last 30-40 years.

The last 30-40 years in the US is when the American people were completely sheltered from reality.

 

[Evo]

We were confronted by a group of soldiers waving automatic rifles at us and rather abruptly escorted us out of the Imperial Palace in Bangkok. We were in a tour group and our guide just told us to remain silent and let the guards take us out. They weren't very nice. I still have no idea what happened, I guess someone in the group might have stepped on something or forgotten to take their shoes off going into one of the shrines, who knows.

 

[edward]

The last 30-40 years in the US is when the American people were completely sheltered from reality.

Can you provide a link or some kind of legitimacy to that statement. The war in Vietnam was on the evening news.

I will admit that after Vietnam toy guns fell out of favor. but they are back big time now.

 

[edward]

We were confronted by a group of soldiers waving automatic rifles at us and rather abruptly escorted us out of the Imperial Palace in Bangkok. We were in a tour group and our guide just told us to remain silent and let the guards take us out. They weren't very nice. I still have no idea what happened, I guess someone in the group might have stepped on something or forgotten to take their shoes off going into one of the shrines, who knows.

That's not normal daily life in America, unless a person or group gets too close to a miltary installation.

We can also add six year olds cage fighting to the new American scene.

 

[TVP45]

"Violence is as American as apple pie." H. Rap Brown in 1967.

 

[edward]

"Violence is as American as apple pie." H. Rap Brown in 1967.

That quote was made in reference to black civil rights and he used the term "cherry pie" depending on your source. H. Rap Brown started out as a peaceful demonstrator and then turned to violence.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0462178/plotsummary

Police officers weren't pulling guns during traffic stops in that troubled time period.

 

[Poop-Loops]

Can you provide a link or some kind of legitimacy to that statement. The war in Vietnam was on the evening news.

Google Tet Offensive.

 

[Evo]

We can also add six year olds cage fighting to the new American scene.

That makes me sick and those parents should be mentally evaluated to see if they are fit to be parents (I would guess not) and the children should be removed to protective custody. And those children are assuredly from poor, uneducated families where dreams of becoming the next wrestling champion is a goal.

Violence in the US, as someone said, depends on where you are. If you are in an inner city, you have to expect it. If you're not, violence is something you see on tv.

I was just watching a show on Sao Paulo, Brazil where it is so dangerous that most cars are armoured and are fitted with guns, of course this would be for the more affluent that can afford it.

 

[edward]

Google Tet Offensive.

That's a point. I remember the TET offensive very well. To an extent your idea that Americans have been sheltered form violence in the last 30 to 40 years is true. But that is a sheltering from military actions, and until Iraq there were few.

We don't know poop-loops about what is happening in Iraq on a daily basis, so from that point of view I can agree.

On the home front the news media gives us every gory detail of just about everything else. They even break away form regular programing to give us a look at a high speed chase happening on the other side of the country.

We sure as heck watched the "big burn" at Waco, and extensive coverage of 911.

Again my point is that we are becoming desensitized to violence. Drugs have brought the violence out of the darkness and onto a location near you.

There were four men shot in a very upscale area of the Tucson Foothills over the week end. It was promoted almost to a point of overkill by the news media. (No pun intended.)

Violence, especially drug vilolence isn't just on the wrong side of the tracks anymore.

 

[Poop-Loops]

That's a point. I remember the TET offensive very well. To an extent your idea that Americans have been sheltered form violence in the last 30 to 40 years is true. But that is a sheltering from military actions, and until Iraq there were few.

Okay, but do you remember how outraged people were that the American people were being sheltered from the reality of Vietnam until that point?

 

[edward]

Okay, but do you remember how outraged people were that the American people were being sheltered from the reality of Vietnam until that point?

LOL we weren't being sheltered, the government just didn't want us to know what was going on. Google, Operation Phoenix Vietnam. TET let the cat out of the bag. The press was present and making reports daily throughout the entire war post 1968.

Edit:
The outrage is what eventually helped end the war.

 

[Poop-Loops]

LOL we weren't being sheltered, the government just didn't want us to know what was going on.

Oh, sorry. For a minute there I thought that was the definition of being sheltered. My mistake.

 

[humanino]

violence is something you see on tv

Why ? There would be so many more important things to discuss in the news : economics, geopolitics, genuine news as opposed to pointless boring tabloids. There would be so many more enjoyable cultural shows, or concerts. Why do people like to watch cops running after other human beings ? Is this in human nature ? Accepting the idea that on a large time scale violence (in a restricted sens) is going down, then can we hope public interest will slowly shift away from the Roman Circus ?

Is it enough to blame politics ? I know France underwent quite a decrease in public information quality, to say the least, over my not-so-long lifespan. Sarkozy likes the US and learns very well.

I have already spent more than 3 years in the US. Everytime I encounter a cop, this is Hollywood for real, and it does make my day because I know I am innocent, I am laughing to tears inside but I know how to keep it for myself and stay polite. I am aware that anytime I can get a lost bullet. I had the opportunity to see that with my own eyes during the short time I spent in this country. I am not sure that some cultural gaps can ever be filled in this respect.

I must say at least, to support the claim that "people have become desensitized to violence", that reducing "violence" to counting the number of "violent" death is already showing not much consideration to the concept of violence. Who defined those criteria ? Nicola's story will never show up in those statistics. Modern violence is not in death, that is past history of the good old XX and before. There are much better ways to indulge pain withouth anybody noticing it.

 

[Moonbear]

That's a point. I remember the TET offensive very well. To an extent your idea that Americans have been sheltered form violence in the last 30 to 40 years is true. But that is a sheltering from military actions, and until Iraq there were few.

We don't know poop-loops about what is happening in Iraq on a daily basis, so from that point of view I can agree.

On the home front the news media gives us every gory detail of just about everything else. They even break away form regular programing to give us a look at a high speed chase happening on the other side of the country.

We sure as heck watched the "big burn" at Waco, and extensive coverage of 911.

Again my point is that we are becoming desensitized to violence. Drugs have brought the violence out of the darkness and onto a location near you.

There were four men shot in a very upscale area of the Tucson Foothills over the week end. It was promoted almost to a point of overkill by the news media. (No pun intended.)

Violence, especially drug vilolence isn't just on the wrong side of the tracks anymore.

I really do think it is partly due to where you live, and partly due to getting wider media coverage, so when there's no local crimes, you hear about national ones.

I think I mentioned it before, but I'm not sifting back through the thread to check...when I grew up in NJ, EVERY NIGHT in the news there was a story about another murder (or two) in NYC. I was convinced NYC was a HORRIBLE place to go, because people were always being murdered there (especially in Central Park). I now live in a place where I can leave doors unlocked and never worry. But, when I visit NY and NJ, I also don't hear about as many crimes as I used to. My boyfriend's cousin is a cop in NYC, and asked him about taking the subway to a particular stop at night...he asked because when we were both younger, you'd NEVER take a subway through there if you valued your life. His cousin laughed at him for asking...told him there's no reason to worry, and that's why they have the transit cops at those stations, to keep the crime in check. It has gotten quite a bit better since when we were kids.

I know it's rather shocking when it hits home, but the change isn't that there's more violence, but rather cops aren't waiting around to get shot at before they stop someone from approaching them. A cop pulling a gun faster isn't a sign of more violence, it's a sign that cops are taking more measures to avoid being victims of that violence. When I was a kid, cops were killed in the line of duty more often...they've taken measures to stop that.

And, yes, there are always sickos in society who act violently or oddly...children cage fighting would be an example. This isn't any more or less than it was before, just the media coverage is such that you hear about it more. Again, when I was a kid, I rarely heard about that sort of stuff across the country, just the local stories...there was plenty of local news to report. Now, if there's no local story, we all hear about the story somewhere across the country. It can give the perception there's more crime, but it doesn't mean there really is.

 

[Evo]

Why ? There would be so many more important things to discuss in the news : economics, geopolitics, genuine news as opposed to pointless boring tabloids.

Human nature I suppose. Ask why people like violent sports where athletes get hurt. Then the riots by the spectators far exceed the violence of the sport. I don't happen to be one of those that enjoys seeing people get hurt.

Look at the Romans, so heralded for bringing culture and advancements to most of the "known" world at the time, yet lusted for watching people and animals being tortured and killed.

Are we more or less violent than our ancestors?

 

[humanino]

This isn't any more or less than it was before, just the media coverage is such that you hear about it more.

Why ? Why does everybody turns one's attention to those ? People seem to like it, of course politics like it, it is such an easy topic, journalist love it since it is so trivial to get more of it. But when will other voices be heard ? When will people realize that intellectual laziness actually impact there daily life, from local to global scale ?

 

[humanino]

Ask why people like violent sports where athletes get hurt.

As the Greek called it to refer to those roman animals, Catharsis maybe. Exorcism of their own fear to get hurt themselves.

Are we more or less violent than our ancestors?

I believe much less, when we count "flesh" individual violence. As the real threat out there shifts from being stabbed by your neighbour to starve from economical crisis, I think people's concerns have also shifted. Yet during the last (few) decades, it seems there was a reverse trend in the media to use more and more real life micro drama.

For the original story, I have failed to find statistics whether the ratio police brutality to attack to police service has increased or decreased.

 

[edward]

Human nature I suppose. Ask why people like violent sports where athletes get hurt. Then the riots by the spectators far exceed the violence of the sport. I don't happen to be one of those that enjoys seeing people get hurt.

same here

Look at the Romans, so heralded for bringing culture and advancements to most of the "known" world at the time, yet lusted for watching people and animals being tortured and killed.

In the end things didn't turn out to well for the Romans. And it appears that many of our more modern problems were involved in their downfall.

http://killeenroos.com/1/Romefall.htm

Are we more or less violent than our ancestors?

Of course we are. We are just a bit more sophisticated about it. We still fill great arenas with people who want to hurt each other. The Romans may have been more brutal, but we take first place with our sheer volume of violent acts. Plus with better weapons we can kill and maim much more efficiently.

We prosecuted former Japanese soldiers for war crimes if they were involved in torture. This included water torture which was the equivalent of water boarding. Now we are doing it.

Do we have a need to be more violent than our ancestors?

 

[edward]

For the original story, I have failed to find statistics whether the ratio police brutality to attack to police service has increased or decreased.

It is difficult to put a number on that. Some activities which are now normal for police were once rare. On the other hand as far as things like crowd and riot control we are merely a bit more sophisticated. We have Tasers, rubber bullets, high pressure water hoses, shot guns that fire a non lethal pack, and mace. This creates jobs

 

[Evo]

I believe we are only more constrained in our tendencies toward violence because of the stigma society has placed on it. As you said, we tend to fill that need for violence in more socially acceptable ways now.

As to humanino's question about why it's on tv and the news, it's is because, again, obviously people want to see gory stuff. It sells. Look at the popularity of slasher movies and violent computer games. We've replaced actual violence with virtual violence. Neither appeals to me.

 

[Poop-Loops]

I don't see the big deal about violence. Violence is like sex. Everybody wants it, but society tells us we can't. Or at least, *shouldn't*.

So what's better, waiting it out, suppressing our violent urges until we snap, or going to a football/hockey/boxing match/movie/whatever?

I used to do some Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and MMA. Why? I can't even say. I don't like hurting people. And I certainly didn't like getting hurt myself. But there was something about the fight that made me come back for more.

Evo, you don't like violence, period. That's probably the best case. But you have to admit not everybody can be like you. Just like I don't like alcohol, doesn't mean I can expect others not to drink it.

http://www.slate.com/id/2152487/

 

[TVP45]

That quote was made in reference to black civil rights and he used the term "cherry pie" depending on your source. H. Rap Brown started out as a peaceful demonstrator and then turned to violence.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0462178/plotsummary

Police officers weren't pulling guns during traffic stops in that troubled time period.

Only for DWB.

 

[humanino]

I don't see the big deal about violence.

You see, there was a time in my life when I was violent, or I consider now I was such then. But I was young. It did not matter what people told me, I would not care the least. I wanted to be "free". I was just a kid, hey. Until one day I realized I was one more step to dump the entire rest of life, even if for a reason which I still consider to be good enough today, but at this very moment I decided to change.

So I figured, everybody must experience the same to a certain level. When as a kid, you do like violence, when as a teenager you experience violence, and when growing up as an adult you realize what it means to have recourse to violence. Should violence be taught in school then, so as to make sure everybody understand and realize what it is ?

 

[P4PPY]

edward-

I agree with just about everything you have said in this thread.

My .02 cents:

The officer was in the wrong. He himself should NEVER have drawn his weapon. Lethal force is only used as a last resort, and he should never have pointed his weapon at a civilian unless he intended to kill her. (Pointing it at her head was the first sign).

America has been desensitized for sure, especially over the past 40 years. But don't lump this one officer in with my own beliefs.

My own experience of getting out of my vehicle during a traffic stop was NOTHING like what your niece went through. The officer who pulled me over put his hand on his holster, put his hand up horizontally and told me to, "Please get back in the vehicle sir!".

This was all that was needed for me to understand my position in the scenario. The guy who gets back in the car and shuts up. lol.

The officer who pulled your niece over was in the wrong, and there are a lot of different reasons this could have happened. Maybe he had to many donuts that day and was on a sugar rush... who knows.

Tell your niece to get over it (not in a mean way) and that this will not happen every time she gets pulled over. Nor will she be shot going to the ATM at midnight by a group of kids who play violent video games all day.

 

[Greg Bernhardt]

In the city I live we have 5-6 reported shootings a night. It's scary.

 

[Poop-Loops]

You see, there was a time in my life when I was violent, or I consider now I was such then. But I was young. It did not matter what people told me, I would not care the least. I wanted to be "free". I was just a kid, hey. Until one day I realized I was one more step to dump the entire rest of life, even if for a reason which I still consider to be good enough today, but at this very moment I decided to change.

So I figured, everybody must experience the same to a certain level. When as a kid, you do like violence, when as a teenager you experience violence, and when growing up as an adult you realize what it means to have recourse to violence. Should violence be taught in school then, so as to make sure everybody understand and realize what it is ?

Teaching violence and teaching to be violent are two different things. I'm not a violent person. Only been in one fight my entire life. But that doesn't mean I don't like violence. I watch movies, play video games, and even fight when it's between consenting people. That'd the difference between boxing and brawling. Boxers are friends at the end of the day. For them it's a hobby, a skill. Even if they are letting loose pent up anger, they don't take it personally and at least do it in a safe environment, not in a bar somewhere.

Watching a violent movie, playing a violent sport, or attacking someone on the street are the equivalents of watching porn, having sex, or raping someone. Are you going to tell me I can't have sex or watch porn because it looks the same as rape?

I mean, we do teach our kids about sex in school. So maybe we should teach them about violence?

 

[rewebster]

Other the other hand, p4ppy has a point---I've met some incredibly ignorant, over the top for "I'm a cop, I've got power, I've got a gun" attitude that I couldn't believe that they weren't kicked off the force, or even allowed to be on the force due to abnormal and aggressive personalities. I worked in Psych for a few years, and with some 'lower than average' mentalities, and a couple of those cops, in my opinion, were in that 85 and below on the IQ scale.

 

[P4PPY]

I mean, we do teach our kids about sex in school. So maybe we should teach them about violence?

I LOVE it! Wait... I think we should teach them about real sex in school first, THEN violence...

We really don't teach our children about sex... anymore than we teach them about violence. Sex ed (sex) vs Wrestling/football (violence). But with football you get teamwork... *wink*

Other the other hand, p4ppy has a point---I've met some incredibly ignorant, over the top for "I'm a cop, I've got power, I've got a gun" attitude that I couldn't believe that they weren't kicked off the force, or even allowed to be on the force due to abnormal and aggressive personalities. I worked in Psych for a few years, and with some 'lower than average' mentalities, and a couple of those cops, in my opinion, were in that 85 and below on the IQ scale.

I believe that's exactly what she encountered.

Think of it this way...

1 in 10 cops are overstressed and strung out... ready to pull the trigger at the slightest hint of aggression.

She might have been pulled over 9 times before coming to the US and getting pulled over that 10th time.

People are the same everywhere... it alls comes down to how they are taught to deal with their most basic of instincts.

Hold a gun to my mum's head and tell me you're going to shoot her... I'm going to rage up and kill you with my bare hands as fast as possible.

Hold a gun up to the head of the monk's mother... and he's going to try and justify the nature of human ways so that he can move on in life without his mum.

Both scenarios have the same basic instincts... one just deals with it in different ways, according to how his/her immediate society has taught them.

I like to think of it as society programs out subconscious mind to react in specific situations, if those specific situations have not been embedded, then you revert back to your most basic instinct.

- An American grows up playing video games now
- A monk grows up loving nature and respecting all things in life.

ok.. my babbling is done... next!

 

[cristo]

Watching a violent movie, playing a violent sport, or attacking someone on the street are the equivalents of watching porn, having sex, or raping someone. Are you going to tell me I can't have sex or watch porn because it looks the same as rape?

Wow, did no-one ever tell you that things happening on a television screen in a staged environment are not the same as things happening on the streets in the real world?

I mean, we do teach our kids about sex in school. So maybe we should teach them about violence?

What are you going to tell them? There's a purpose to sex; a fundamental reason that kids should be told about. This doesn't exist with violence. You analogies are extremely weak, at best.

 

[P4PPY]

The school system translates "violence" to "aggression". If a child is abnormally aggressive... they are actually saying, he is violent! Not to mention they are telling the parent in a subtle way... get your child some help before he kills somebody!

They try to teach children about handling and controlling aggression. But it's a band-aid at best.

 

[turbo]

I don't buy the premise that our society has become more or less violent. It's a matter of what we know(or are told about). When I was a child (as a Kindergarten student) I was hauled into the principal's office because a 2nd grader had pushed me down and punched me, and I climbed him like a monkey, choked him, and slammed his head into a rock. The principal took one look at him and me and gave me a pass.

In my neighborhood, fully 1/2 of the guys of the guys in my neighborhood have have done time in the Maine State Prison, and the older guys treated me like a pit bull. They would tell some new kid that I was gunning for them, etc, and provoke a fight to see who would come out on top. I never topped 125# even through high school, but I could run 10-15 miles easily. I never wanted to hurt anybody (having been a victim of domestic violence), but I wouldn't stand for getting my ass kicked, either.

 

[P4PPY]

I call people like you, "Scrappers!".

Those are the best! And after I spend 20 minutes chasing your ass around a car in the parking lot... we go inside and have beers together!

 

[lisab]

I LOVE it! Wait... I think we should teach them about real sex in school first...

No way, that'd just mess it up...

The famous Monty Python's Sex Education: