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George Jones
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You plan to shoulder to shoulder the full financial burden of your education so that your brother will not have to shoulder any of his? Have I misunderstood? What/who gives you the right to do this?
Sometimes parents behave unfairly, e.g., my grandmother
but, as a parent (hypothetically, as I only have one kid), I would not allow what you propose to happen. My wife and I contribute annually to an RESP for our daughter; this is money we (and the Canadian government) set aside for her to use for her education after high school. We choose how much money we want to set aside for this, not her (although she is only in grade 1, so does not yet think about this).
Sometimes parents behave unfairly, e.g., my grandmother
George Jones said:My mother’s mother said that her first girl to finish grade eight had to stay home to help with her large depression-era family. My mother excelled at and loved school, and she skipped a grade. She had a sister a year older than her, but her sister had to repeat a failed grade, so my mother ended up a grade ahead of her sister. My grandmother did not make an exception, so, effectively, my mother was punished for doing well at school.
but, as a parent (hypothetically, as I only have one kid), I would not allow what you propose to happen. My wife and I contribute annually to an RESP for our daughter; this is money we (and the Canadian government) set aside for her to use for her education after high school. We choose how much money we want to set aside for this, not her (although she is only in grade 1, so does not yet think about this).
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