- #2,906
homeomorphic
- 1,773
- 130
Another problem is that you will most likely have to move several times for your career. You might have to move for grad school. Once you get your PhD, you'll most likely have to move a couple of times for post docs. And after that you'll probably have to move again for a tenure-track job, and then maybe again after that.
All this instability will make having a long-term relationship more complicated.
It can also make getting the relationship more complicated.
My most common excuse to chicken out on making the moves is the girls that I meet are often grad students who are not in synch with me as far as graduating at the same, as well as later difficulties after that, so I just rationalize it by telling myself it will never work out anyway. When it comes to chickening out, I'll take any excuse I can get.