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JaredJames
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By the way you are talking I'd say you are about 14. A kid. As everyone has pointed out before. Your peers (the professor in this case) would have like your answer. Your friends wouldn't as they are not in the same field as you. His response was perfectly valid and showed his annoyance at you, mocking you. Look up the word peers.27Thousand said:I emailed my professor and he said that he thought my example was a very deep understanding of how the concept works, and he said just to not worry about it because an education will get me further than what my roommate will have. Don't you hear people all the time say, "He's tired"? Although my response was geeky, was my roommates response any more thought out/less rote?
You didn't say it, I never said you did, you tried to argue to us that it was creative and wanted us to respond with how brilliant it is.27Thousand said:Where did I say it was brilliantly creative? I only what I said wasn't from a book, and described how I felt at the time.
They are taking the p***. Why do you take everything so literally?27Thousand said:If you say what you think, and someone says, "Not from a book," please explain how they are not discrediting your thoughts? If what I said was how I thought just as much as someone saying, "I'm happy," how is it supposed to be any less of a blow to being a person when someone says, "Not from a book"? I didn't even get it from a book. If he quotes lines from the movie Princess Bride, how is his response less from a book? Roommates tell others that they're going to the grocery store, and I see going to the grocery store in books/newspapers. So what?
Look, when asked "why did he go upstairs" there are a number of ways to respond and the roommate wasn't looking for a lecture. He wanted a simple "to sleep" or perhaps something humourous. By giving a lecture of textbook psychology, you fueled their jokes and annoyed them at the same time by giving such a long and pointless answer. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO EINSTEIN AND NEWTON! When with peers yes, give the long answers because they'll like them. When with friends react how they would expect.27Thousand said:In hindsight, I agree that it was too much thought to share for the situation, but how was "he's tired" less ordinary? Which do you hear more often? Which answer was used in a more out of the ordinary way, even if neither was entertaining? Does "He's tired" sound extremely entertaining and original? Don't you think he could have been more "new" and creative than "he's tired"? Remember, Einstein said he wasn't trying to create, but rather discover.
I didn't know the word conceptualize. Regardless, he was mocking you. Until you can understand this I suggest you stop leading yourself into those situations.27Thousand said:I don't understand why you say I got it from a thesaurus? Everyone knows the word "conceptualize"; the word is free for everyone to use. The only words I took from the television show decades ago was "the world around". I used multiple life experiences to create, "I'm just trying to conceptualize the world around me." It wasn't meant to be brilliant, but rather communicate my feelings at the time. That's why I got the impression he was saying not to have any feelings, because everything is automatically in a book.
You sound about 14 to me, like a kid. You are still arguing irrelevant points. The only thing I want a response to are these:
1) Why does it matter to you so much? Why do you give a ****?
2) Do you understand the advice given? Can you see why your responses are inapropriate and simply fuel your friends attitude?