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BobG
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Artman said:Maybe if I had been a little assertive about his not smoking he may have cut down and lowered a major risk factor.
The first step in overcoming your guilt is to admit we are powerless over tobacco —that our lives have become unmanageable. Only the smoker can break addiction's hold on his life. It's important for you to let go and admit you have no control over others' actions. The only thing you can control is your reaction to tobacco. You need to detach - let go and let the smoker take responsibility for his own actions.