What do girls/women look for in men?

[rewebster]

I seem to have a minute problem with girls for some reason. Most of the time they're only interested in me for "fun" and it has put quite a dent in my self esteem. I'd like to find out where I'm going wrong, you know? Even lately, as soon as I mention to a girl that I'm not so interested to rushing into things, I never hear from her anymore. Is it just a college thing or something?

you're lucky that you have that ----that's one of the main 'things' women look for


they think you've rejected them

 

[offtheleft]

you're lucky that you have that ----that's one of the main 'things' women look for


they think you've rejected them

No, by fun I mean I've been used countless times as a piece of @$$. And I only reject people who deserve it. I'll give just about anyone a chance.

 

[rewebster]

No, by fun I mean I've been used countless times as a piece of @$$. And I only reject people who deserve it. I'll give just about anyone a chance.

you're better than a lot of people then---and maybe the women see that too

 

[offtheleft]

you're better than a lot of people then---and maybe the women see that too

I don't know. I kind of wish girl like me for me and not the way I look. Even though I'm a Physics and Math nerd :)

 

[rewebster]

maybe the 'right' one will recognize and appreciate both--as you'll find what you need in her----some men have a hard time getting any woman to even talk to them for any length of time, at least, about more important things

 

[Garth]

Michael Parkinson "What do you look for in a man?"
Joan Rivers "A pulse!"

Garth

 

[offtheleft]

Michael Parkinson "What do you look for in a man?"
Joan Rivers "A pulse!"

Garth

I got that part down.

 

[rewebster]

sometimes the more 'attractive' women are also more sensitive to rejection, maybe because they don't get rejected too often----I've seen some women leave college and go home after being 'rejected'

 

[DaveC426913]

No, by fun I mean I've been used countless times as a piece of @$$.

I've see a lot of very envious guys standing in line to smack you upside the head.


Seriously though, is it possible you're jumping into bed too quickly? If they're just interested in your @$$, they won't stick around if they think they'll have to build a relationship first.

 

[offtheleft]

sometimes the more 'attractive' women are also more sensitive to rejection, maybe because they don't get rejected too often----I've seen some women leave college and go home after being 'rejected'

Well I'm fine with rejection. Up until about 10th grade I was the weirdo wearing all black, long hair and never talked. So, I am quite familiar with rejection.

I've see a lot of very envious guys standing in line to smack you upside the head.

Eh, I know what you're saying. But, I was jerked around by this girl for quite some time. I really did like her so I did anything I could do to be with her. I finally realized she was just a c*n7 and pretty much used to hell out of me.

 

[rewebster]

I've see a lot of very envious guys standing in line to smack you upside the head.


Seriously though, is it possible you're jumping into bed too quickly? If they're just interested in your @$$, they won't stick around if they think they'll have to build a relationship first.

this used to happen to me too--I'd come back from some class, and my roommate (dorm) would say there's some girl waiting in the room--"who?" ---he wouldn't know either---


college is full of 'light' impressions

 

[DaveC426913]

this used to happen to me too--I'd come back from some class, and my roommate (dorm) would say there's some girl waiting in the room--"who?" ---he wouldn't know either---

Yeah that happened to me too quite a bit. But then my alarm would go off and I'd wake up...

 

[Zenparticle]

What I look for is compassion, loyalty, respect, sense of humor, patience, smarts. I like it when men open the door, give flowers all that old fashioned stuff. I guess it shows some sort of respect to be treated like a "lady". Women love men who can listen without giving advice and just understand and validate the womans feelings. I like men who are not afraid to get dirty, who can be fearless if needed and who can fix stuff... Just my random two cents.

 

[DaveC426913]

I like it when men open the door, give flowers all that old fashioned stuff.

: dives for cover away from zp's vicinity :

 

[Zenparticle]

: dives for cover away from zp's vicinity :

Wait where are you going? Hey come back here, I have doors that are closed darn it! Stop Running from me!

 

[DaveC426913]

Wait where are you going? Hey come back here, I have doors that are closed darn it! Stop Running from me!

: stumbles away trying to put on his flame retardant suit :

: looks back to see half of the PF men chasing zp with torches and pitchforks :

 

[Jimmy Snyder]

I asked my wife (she's a girl/woman) and she said it doesn't matter what they look for, they don't always get it.

 

[rootX]

I found this guide to getting a girlfriend:
http://www.datatek.net/Humor/Selecting a Girlfriend

 

[DaveC426913]

I found this guide to getting a girlfriend:
http://www.datatek.net/Humor/Selecting a Girlfriend

It just sort of ...ends.

I think that's where his Ford-Escort-of-a-Girlfriend brained him with a ball peen hammer.

 

[iBop]

I like men who are not absolutely straight, because they are gang, or gender discriminaters, I don't like 'Absolute' homosexuals because they are way of too different, closed men fit best to my definition. Bisexuals seem cool.

By the way I am a woman, Bobbie is my name

 

[offtheleft]

What I look for is compassion, loyalty, respect, sense of humor, patience, smarts. I like it when men open the door, give flowers all that old fashioned stuff. I guess it shows some sort of respect to be treated like a "lady". Women love men who can listen without giving advice and just understand and validate the womans feelings. I like men who are not afraid to get dirty, who can be fearless if needed and who can fix stuff... Just my random two cents.

Pick me!

I'm a lot like that, especially if it will make a girl happy. Because I'm happy when I make you happy.

 

[DaveC426913]

Pick me!

I'm a lot like that, especially if it will make a girl happy. Because I'm happy when I make you happy.

Counterintuitively, girls are not attracted to guys who will do whatever it takes to make them happy. Oh they might be at first, but they often end up losing respect for a guy who's too much of a cow-tow, and if they don't completely lose interest in them, they may just treat them like a pet.

No, the key to women's hearts is not to try to please, but to be who you are.

 

[offtheleft]

Counterintuitively, girls are not attracted to guys who will do whatever it takes to make them happy. Oh they might be at first, but they often end up losing respect for a guy who's too much of a cow-tow, and if they don't completely lose interest in them, they may just treat them like a pet.

No, the key to women's hearts is not to try to please, but to be who you are.

I don't mean it the way you think. I'm far from whipped and I like to create an even balance of courtship in spontaneous and fun ways.

 

[neu]

Girls attribute more significance to the size of his sausage, women to the limit of his Visa.

Where the latter tends to vary inversely with former.

For example, my credit card limit is woefully inadaquate.

 

[LowlyPion]

Symmetry suggests that a discussion of what men look for in women might be relevant.

I notice however that the only threads that are considered by the database to be relevant to this topic suggest a theme that women are evil?

 

[cristo]

I notice however that the only threads that are considered by the database to be relevant to this topic suggest a theme that women are evil?

PF is extremely wise

 

[Focus]

I notice however that the only threads that are considered by the database to be relevant to this topic suggest a theme that women are evil?

$$\text{women}=\text{time} * \text{money}$$ women need time and money
$$\text{time}=\text{money}$$ time is money
$$\text{money}=\sqrt{\text{evil}}$$ money is root of evil
thus
$$\text{women}=\text{money}^2=\text{evil}$$

 

[Evo]

I notice however that the only threads that are considered by the database to be relevant to this topic suggest a theme that women are evil?

Threads started by men.

PF is extremely wise

Wait until the PF Sisters see this. I think cristo might want to think twice before entering any threads alone.

I just want to find a man that won't mind me getting old. Sooner or later it's going to happen. At the rate I am banging my self up, it's going to be sooner. A friend of mine said something the other day that was depressing, but true. Right now you look in the mirror and think you look bad, but figure if you get a good night's sleep you'll look better tomorrow. Then comes the day when you realize that this is how you look now, and it's never going to get better.

 

[cristo]

Wait until the PF Sisters see this. I think cristo might want to think twice before entering any threads alone.

Uh-oh, I didn't think that one through properly!

 

[Zenparticle]

Counterintuitively, girls are not attracted to guys who will do whatever it takes to make them happy. Oh they might be at first, but they often end up losing respect for a guy who's too much of a cow-tow, and if they don't completely lose interest in them, they may just treat them like a pet.

No, the key to women's hearts is not to try to please, but to be who you are.

Well put, and quite true. Being yourself and NOT letting people(men, women, children, small animals) walk over all over you is a good thing. Boundaries are important. Like doors that never open...

 

[OoZzZoO]

Threads started by men.

Wait until the PF Sisters see this. I think cristo might want to think twice before entering any threads alone.

I just want to find a man that won't mind me getting old. Sooner or later it's going to happen. At the rate I am banging my self up, it's going to be sooner. A friend of mine said something the other day that was depressing, but true. Right now you look in the mirror and think you look bad, but figure if you get a good night's sleep you'll look better tomorrow. Then comes the day when you realize that this is how you look now, and it's never going to get better.

find a man whos either dead or way older than u:!)

 

[rootX]

I think different now

... after reading few of these threads

 

[Moonbear]

I think different now

... after reading few of these threads

Forget the thread killer champions thread. I think this one has to win the prize for dying and being brought back to life the most times.

 

[FrancisZ]

Is anyone else totally creept-out by the "Ads by google" for this thread? I mean the "singles" advertisements.

 

[rootX]

Is anyone else totally creept-out by the "Ads by google" for this thread? I mean the "singles" advertisements.

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