- #701
khermans
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Wow, I can't believe this thread - but what the heck, here's my two cents 
This girl is obviously toying with you and maybe does have some kind of a little crush on you, as showed by her friend's comments that she likes you. Anyways, the point is just to be confident about yourself whether it's wrong or not. Even if you are wrong about something, be confident about it. Girls like that confidence. (ponders physicists never admitting they are wrong even after their theories are disproved!) The trick is that most girls like *******s, seriously. People on here won't tell you that, but it's especially true in high school among the "popular crowd". You'll soon realize that this class warfare in high school amounts to nothing once you are out. The whole things fades as time goes on and you are out of school. College life may be a bit of it, but most people finally mature after high school is over.
Anyways, so you can try the ******* approach. When I say this though, you can't be over the top assholish! And also, she seems to already know you so this may not work on her, and may only work in the future on other women. Like the guy who posted before said, you need to drop little hints that you are interested. Like in the AIM conversation, you should have said "You're going to make it up to me right?" or something like that. Drop hints that you you are interested in her, and this hint dropping equates to self-confidence.
You mentioned that she was trying to "put you down" in front of friends. Maybe she wasn't trying to, but just getting your attention the only way she knows how. Another physchological explanation for this is that maybe she is ashamed at herself for having a crush on you (maybe you are not hot, and she likes you - but dating you would be unacceptable in her social situation), and feels the need to put you down to appease her social "ranking". It's weird, but seems like a good start to thinking about your problem.
If it were me, from what I know about women now, I would avoid this girl even if you do have a crush on her. Dwelling on the situation will only cause you to spend more and more time thinking about it (duh!). My advice is that there are other girls in your school right? So act confident and talk to one of them outside their social structure. The "cliques" in school can be ferocious, so it is best to meet people outside of these constructs. Possibly an even better place is at a local mall (assuming you are too young for other social hangouts).
Keep your chin up dude and listen to what these people on here have to say. My advice is neither wrong nor right, because it is all relative. Think relativity...
This girl is obviously toying with you and maybe does have some kind of a little crush on you, as showed by her friend's comments that she likes you. Anyways, the point is just to be confident about yourself whether it's wrong or not. Even if you are wrong about something, be confident about it. Girls like that confidence. (ponders physicists never admitting they are wrong even after their theories are disproved!) The trick is that most girls like *******s, seriously. People on here won't tell you that, but it's especially true in high school among the "popular crowd". You'll soon realize that this class warfare in high school amounts to nothing once you are out. The whole things fades as time goes on and you are out of school. College life may be a bit of it, but most people finally mature after high school is over.
Anyways, so you can try the ******* approach. When I say this though, you can't be over the top assholish! And also, she seems to already know you so this may not work on her, and may only work in the future on other women. Like the guy who posted before said, you need to drop little hints that you are interested. Like in the AIM conversation, you should have said "You're going to make it up to me right?" or something like that. Drop hints that you you are interested in her, and this hint dropping equates to self-confidence.
You mentioned that she was trying to "put you down" in front of friends. Maybe she wasn't trying to, but just getting your attention the only way she knows how. Another physchological explanation for this is that maybe she is ashamed at herself for having a crush on you (maybe you are not hot, and she likes you - but dating you would be unacceptable in her social situation), and feels the need to put you down to appease her social "ranking". It's weird, but seems like a good start to thinking about your problem.
If it were me, from what I know about women now, I would avoid this girl even if you do have a crush on her. Dwelling on the situation will only cause you to spend more and more time thinking about it (duh!). My advice is that there are other girls in your school right? So act confident and talk to one of them outside their social structure. The "cliques" in school can be ferocious, so it is best to meet people outside of these constructs. Possibly an even better place is at a local mall (assuming you are too young for other social hangouts).
Keep your chin up dude and listen to what these people on here have to say. My advice is neither wrong nor right, because it is all relative. Think relativity...
